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Be the Chooser

take charge of your love life

You’re smart, successful, and an action taker. You want that forever relationship. The one that feels NATURAL and EASY. Just RIGHT.

But you are tired of dating commitment-phobes, emotionally unavailable types, casual hookups, people you have to rescue, or no one you can take seriously.

You’re beginning to doubt your… *date-ability*.

WORST OF ALL…DO Any of THESE SOUND FAMILIAR?

 
  • You are constantly worried about being perfect for someone to like you
  • You change yourself to fit into a mold so that others will want you
  • You prioritize the needs of others over your own needs
  • You struggle with fully accepting and loving yourself 100%
  • You having a crippling fear of rejection so you do not put yourself out there
  • You struggle with expressing your authentic feelings to the people you are dating
  • Or maybe you just have not dated for awhile and have no idea where to start
If you answered YES to any of these statements, you must change your unconscious thinking in order to change your results.

The truth is a lot of dating issues that make people feel like they are not good enough come from a person’s family of origin and childhood or past experiences.

People tend to pick partners who do not meet their needs or stay stuck when they have not healed from their own unconscious false programming. 

In my Conscious Dating programs, I help singles heal false programming about relationships that is preventing them from moving forward in their love life. 

With my support singles learn how to rewrite their unhealthy limiting beliefs and identify what a GOOD relationship looks like specifically for them so they can find true everlasting love.

 I’m here for YOU and can definitely help. In fact, I’d LOVE to.

If you’re ready to invest in yourself, let me help YOU find lasting love by making CONSCIOUS DATING choices TODAY. 

 

Schedule your FREE Relationship Readiness Review with me. NOW.

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About Me

Meet Dating Coach,
AMIE Leadingham

Once upon a time, I was a struggling single too. Through a new approach called CONSCIOUS DATING I finally found the love of my life.

Since then, I’ve helped countless singles (just like YOU) do the same. I’m a Master Certified Relationship Coach, Dating Coach, an Online Dating Expert, an Author, and grateful that I was named one of *LA’s Best Dating Coaches* by DatingAdvice.com and Datzie.

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Conscious Dating Coaching Programs

I have designed three different LIVE virtual Conscious Dating Programs just for YOU. Click the button below to check out my One-on-One Dating Coach experience, Path to Love Group Coaching Program, and my popular class on How to Conquer Online Dating and Safely Find Love!

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ONLINE DATING

CONQUER ONLINE DATING & FIND LOVE: An easy step-by-step program that shows you my top hacks to attracting more quality matches FAST, using a proven method to help you find love online.

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GROUP DATING COACHING

GROUP DATING COACHING: Choose from e-learning or a LIVE Zoom group coaching experience. I will support you with like-minded singles to find lasting love by applying the proven Conscious Dating methodology.

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PRIVATE DATING COACHING

PRIVATE COACHING EXPERIENCE: As your dating coach, I will personally support you through the Conscious Dating journey, help you personally with online / in-person dating to find your soulmate in the most private way. 

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Client Testimonials


Hear Kerry's Conscious DATING Journey

"When I decided to jump back in the online dating pool, I was determined to not repeat the same mistakes. My challenge was to find clarity about my best self, make me the priority and crystalize who would best compliment my ideal life. Amie’s dating coaching is laser focused approach is honest yet gentle as we discovered what’s really going on and go deep into a vulnerable place resulting in tremendous growth and enlightenment. By working her proven process, I attracted a wonderful life partner and together, we’re co-creating a new, more meaningful level of love like I’ve never known before! My happiness and gratitude overflows. Thank you Amie!"
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Teri Bond
“I have learned so much from Amie as my dating coach and our sessions. She was able to tap into my negative beliefs that were blocking me from being in a healthy relationship. It was more than just dating advice, it was helping me to get out of my own way and be the best version of me I can be. I know now that I am the chooser and I have standards and framework that finally helped me find the relationship I was deserving of!”
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Dr. Sasa
“I can highly recommend Amie as a relationship and dating coach! She helped me overcome my internal blocks to love and helped me to acknowledge my feeling more in all relationships. The work she did with me was instrumental in helping me stay grounded. Fast forward 2 years I am happily married!"
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I’m a Certified Master Life Coach and Relationship Coach aka Dating Coach for Los Angeles and Las Vegas, I am also an Online Dating Expert. Whatever the title may be, I work with goal-oriented singles who have tried free dating sites, dating apps, online dating, top dating sites, matchmaking services, asked friends for relationship advice, speed dating, organic dating and/or blind dates. They really have tried it all but still, haven’t met the “one” yet. My clients are busy with their careers and unlucky with love, but they truly value and want a quality relationship. They are ready for change and want to start playing BIG in love! Sounds like you? Pssst…. If you haven’t yet, I urge you to take advantage of my Relationship Readiness Session here.

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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt 

I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table.

Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters.

So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕

#LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table. Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters. So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕 #LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect.

Here’s what conscious dating taught me:

✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals?

✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy

✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love

✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you

You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period.

What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇

#ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect. Here’s what conscious dating taught me: ✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals? ✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy ✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love ✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period. What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇 #ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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As a dating coach who’s worked with thousands of clients over the years, I can tell you that the three-month relationship pattern is one of the most common issues I see.⁠
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You meet someone, everything feels magical, and you’re convinced this could be “the one.” Then, like clockwork, around month three, something shifts. The spark fades, doubts creep in, and before you know it, you’re single again, wondering what went wrong.⁠
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If this sounds like your dating story on repeat, I want you to know that you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone.⁠
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There are very real psychological and biological reasons why this keeps happening, and once you understand them, you can start making different choices.⁠
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Read the full article to discover what is literally working against you in early stages of dating (and how to outsmart it) ⁠
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As a dating coach who’s worked with thousands of clients over the years, I can tell you that the three-month relationship pattern is one of the most common issues I see.⁠ ⁠ You meet someone, everything feels magical, and you’re convinced this could be “the one.” Then, like clockwork, around month three, something shifts. The spark fades, doubts creep in, and before you know it, you’re single again, wondering what went wrong.⁠ ⁠ If this sounds like your dating story on repeat, I want you to know that you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone.⁠ ⁠ There are very real psychological and biological reasons why this keeps happening, and once you understand them, you can start making different choices.⁠ ⁠ Read the full article to discover what is literally working against you in early stages of dating (and how to outsmart it) ⁠ ⁠ https://amiethedatingcoach.com/why-relationships-end-at-3-months-and-what-to-do/⁠ ⁠ #3monthfizzle #relationshipbreakup #datingpattern #threemonthpattern #breakthecycle #datingadvice #datingtips
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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️

Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise!

We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together.

Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶

Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕

Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

#13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️

Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise!

We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together.

Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶

Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕

Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

#13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️ Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise! We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together. Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶 Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕 Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ #13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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The Fine Line Between Compassion and Self-Abandonment

Learning to recognize when your empathy becomes self-sacrifice. It took me years to understand that constantly putting someone else’s needs before my own wasn’t love...it was a pattern that led to resentment and losing myself in the process. 

Real love doesn’t require you to abandon who you are. Sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is maintain your boundaries and not enable harmful behavior. 

Growth means learning that you can care deeply for someone without sacrificing your own well-being.

#selflove #boundaries #relationships #codependency #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #selfcare #emotionalhealth #relationshippatterns #peoplepleasing #selfworth #healthyrelationships #innerwork #therapy #selfawareness #growth #love #wellness #mindset #recovery #selfcompassion #boundaries matter #healingjourney #relationshiphealing
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The Fine Line Between Compassion and Self-Abandonment Learning to recognize when your empathy becomes self-sacrifice. It took me years to understand that constantly putting someone else’s needs before my own wasn’t love...it was a pattern that led to resentment and losing myself in the process. Real love doesn’t require you to abandon who you are. Sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is maintain your boundaries and not enable harmful behavior. Growth means learning that you can care deeply for someone without sacrificing your own well-being. #selflove #boundaries #relationships #codependency #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #selfcare #emotionalhealth #relationshippatterns #peoplepleasing #selfworth #healthyrelationships #innerwork #therapy #selfawareness #growth #love #wellness #mindset #recovery #selfcompassion #boundaries matter #healingjourney #relationshiphealing
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