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Amie Leadingham - Amie the Dating Coach | Master Certified Relationship Coach | Online Dating Expert | Author

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Find Lasting Love

Private 1:1 COACHING PROGRAM

PRIVATE COACHING INQUIRY

Every person has a unique path and desire in what they want in a life partner. However, putting yourself out there in the dating world can feel vulnerable, scary, and drum up a lot of anxiety when you do not know what you are doing. 

That is why it’s so important for you to have a personal and intimate experience when it comes to finding the love of your life. Not to worry, you don’t have to do this alone. 

If you are looking for a private coaching experience that yields results, then One-on-One Coaching is perfect for you. 

Especially when you want to feel comfortable, at ease, and have a trusted non-judgmental partner to support you on your dating journey. 

Through personal coaching, I have helped singles (just like YOU) find a life partner who will help them live their best life.

As a result, most meet their love match within several months time. With One-on-One Coaching, you have the highest chance for success to find lasting love because my coaching support is designed for your unique situation and desires.

Do any of these sound familiar?

  • You have a hard time being vulnerable or understanding your own feelings.
  • You change yourself to fit into a mold so that others will want you.
  • You make others needs a priority over your own needs.
  • You have a hard time being vulnerable or understanding your own feelings.
  • You are frozen and stuck because you have so much fear about getting hurt by others.
  • You struggle with fully accepting and loving yourself 100%

If you answered YES, don’t worry. Many singles have been sold a lie about love; that love just happens with no effort and is so easy that you will feel a sudden spark and that will be your person. This myth is not true for most singles.

It's not your fault. The truth is a lot of our dating issues come from our family of origin and childhood programming that makes us feel like we are not good enough.

I work with singles to change that.

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As a Master Certified Relationship Coach, mentor, and named one of LA’s Best Dating Coaches, my goal is to heal your unconscious, false childhood programming about relationships that is keeping you stuck and stopping you from finding true love.

Those initial sparks people often feel when they first meet someone tends to be the familiarity of where they come from. For those who have not worked on inner growth or development, they may be drawn to the dysfunction they already know. 

Without any framework of what a GOOD and HEALTHY relationship looks like, you have a high chance of gravitating to what is familiar and comfortable. This is when people end up settling, rationalizing bad behavior, or just give up on dating altogether because they do not trust their own choices. 

These false beliefs from childhood programming are called limiting beliefs. Until someone gets to the root of these limiting beliefs, these beliefs will drive their choices and the vicious cycle will continue.

My Private Coaching Program helps you break unhealthy dating beliefs, attitudes, and patterns through personal 1:1 virtual coaching, video lessons, breakthrough exercises, and interactions between Conscious Dating Members.

We can see these negative habits in others, but we tend to have blind spots when comes to seeing it in ourselves. That’s why it’s important to get support when it comes to anything that is emotionally charged.

Each week in the program, we will complete exercises that help you envision your ideal relationship and ideal partner.

This will be your Relationship Plan, a powerful tool that will give you clarity on what “works” and what “doesn’t  work” in a relationship.

As a result, you will stop wasting time on dead end relationships and open your heart to choosing a deserving partner that will ultimately lead to life long love.

The universe brought us together for a reason, your intuition is right… this is your year to truly be self-FULL and find lasting love. To connect, schedule a free Private Coaching Inquiry appointment today.

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Kind words from Past clients.

"Amie is more than my dating coach, she is my life coach. She speaks very openly and honestly about all aspects of my life and constantly challenges me to grow as an individual. Within a month of working with Amie, I met the man of my dreams and now, two years later, he and I are awaiting the arrival of our twin daughters. Now, I reach out to Amie for ongoing advice about my career, family and relationship and truly don’t know where I would be without her. One session with Amie and you will see for yourself just how incredible she is!
Nicole Gomez
Nicole Gomez
I made a lifetime commitment to the girl I was dating. She is so amazing, whether it is doing stuff together or doing nothing, she makes me very happy. I'm in a great place but just like from day one, I always credit that you helped me step-by-step to get me ready for when the right person comes. I've embraced this learning process because I believed in you. Thank you for giving me the knowledge, confidence, and positive hope that someone was out there for me. Most importantly, I know she's of quality because she's gone through the Amie test and she passed!
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Andy G.
"I had been single for almost two decades and I was still carrying around negative baggage about previous relationships.I had begun to think I could not open up and truly love someone, part of me felt broken. With your guidance and education, I was able to let go of the past and envision a healthy and happy relationship. I found Sean and he loves me just as I am, he says what he means and communicates clearly. We got engaged at Christmas and are planning to marry in May. I am grateful for your coaching and know that it made all the difference in my life."
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Deb

The Private Coaching Program will help you:

  • Level up your “Dating Picker” by creating a clear and specific vision of your requirements and needs in your IDEAL relationship and partner.
  • Identify your "Non-Negotiables" aka deal-breakers to screen in QUALITY partners and weed out the time-wasters.
  • Target and eliminate the core limiting beliefs that KEEP you single and strategies to eliminate them.
  • Learn how to be vulnerable to connect in a deeper and meaningful way with your partner.
  • Develop your communication skills by practicing ASSERTIVENESS to get your requirements and needs met in your relationship.
  • Eliminate your fears of rejection by becoming the chooser rather than the chaser.
  • Boost your self-confidence and self-esteem by applying my 4-step safe screening strategies.
  • Learn my secret tips to connect, meet, and succeed with Dating Apps + Online Dating websites.
  • Create a profile that will make a lasting impression on your potential partners and help you find the right match.
  • Take your dating game up a notch and find quality connections in-person . Discover how you can organically meet amazing singles through unique methods..
  • Gain clarity of a vision of your ideal relationship that includes personality traits and aligned core values; this will allow you to stay mindful and deliberate as you navigate the dating landscape.

Meet Your Dating Coach

Most of our dating issues come from our family of origin and faulty childhood programming that make us feel like we are not good enough. Amie works with singles to help them eliminate these limiting beliefs and gain clarity about what a GOOD relationship looks like for them.

As a result, singles can change the way they approach dating, make conscious relationship choices, and find a partner that offers the healthy and happy relationship they deserve. These same tools helped Amie find love that she never thought was possible as by doing this work she met her amazing husband Kevin.

She is a Master Certified Relationship Coach and Author. Her dedication and passion has led her to be named one of LA’s Best Dating Coaches by Dating Advice. She has also been featured on CBS Network, Fox 5 News, People Entertainment Weekly, HelloGiggles, Martha Stewart Weddings and more.

If you are struggling with feeling like you are lost with dating and secretly wonder if real love truly exist for you, you are in the right place.

Kind words from Past clients.

“I have learned so much from Amie and our sessions. She was able to tap into my negative beliefs that were blocking me from being in a healthy relationship. It was more than just dating advice, it was helping me to get out of my own way and be the best version of me I can be. I know now that I am the chooser and I have standards and framework that will me find the relationship I am deserving of!”
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Dr. Sasa
“It was only with the intuitive, insightful coaching of Amie's Path to Love Program that I was finally able to see and overcome the habits that had previously kept me from attracting and keeping the right relationship..I’m now married to the man of my dreams… Thank you Amie!”
Kate Cooke
Kate Cooke
Through her Conscious Dating Program, I was able to update my dating profile, identify limiting beliefs, complete dating exercises and more! If you're looking for someone who is patient, kind, understanding and knows deep knowledge of cultivating strong romantic relationship skills, then I highly recommend that you look into Amie's coaching. It is through Amie that I was able to meet my boyfriend.
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Maria Gonzalez
PRIVATE COACHING INQUIRY

private coaching helps you release your limiting beliefs, clearing a pathway to love!

Here's what's included:

My Private Dating Coaching Program helps you break unhealthy dating beliefs, attitudes, and patterns through video lessons, breakthrough exercises, and interactions between Conscious Dating Members.

Private Coaching

($9997 Value)

(18 or 24) Laser-Focused Coaching Sessions with Amie, Master Certified Relationship Coach. My program is hand tailored to match each client’s dating and relationship needs.

powerful exercises

($497 Value)

Each week you will receive powerful (30) Conscious Dating exercises that offers a simple step-by-step process to help you gain clarity and the healing you need to find true love.

Private Community

($1497 Value)

Get connected with Conscious Dating members and form powerful relationships that will help you support each other and be a soundboard to help one another. 

dating library

($1497 Value)

Unlock our expansive Conscious Dating platform of resources, including assessments, articles, meditations, videos, and tools. designed to hone your dating skillset. 

Lifetime Access

($1497 Value)

Have exclusive access to everything inside the membership portal for life including any new updates, plus exclusive access to LIVE zoom events, exercises, and assessments at your fingertips!

VIDEO TRAINING

($1997 Value)

Over 4 hours of video lessons providing a comprehensive experience guiding you to build your ideal relationship and learn essential dating skills for lasting love 

Let’s Talk

schedule your appointment below

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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️

Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise!

We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together.

Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶

Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕

Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

#13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️

Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise!

We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together.

Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶

Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕

Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

#13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️ Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise! We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together. Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶 Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕 Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ #13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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The Fine Line Between Compassion and Self-Abandonment

Learning to recognize when your empathy becomes self-sacrifice. It took me years to understand that constantly putting someone else’s needs before my own wasn’t love...it was a pattern that led to resentment and losing myself in the process. 

Real love doesn’t require you to abandon who you are. Sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is maintain your boundaries and not enable harmful behavior. 

Growth means learning that you can care deeply for someone without sacrificing your own well-being.

#selflove #boundaries #relationships #codependency #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #selfcare #emotionalhealth #relationshippatterns #peoplepleasing #selfworth #healthyrelationships #innerwork #therapy #selfawareness #growth #love #wellness #mindset #recovery #selfcompassion #boundaries matter #healingjourney #relationshiphealing
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The Fine Line Between Compassion and Self-Abandonment Learning to recognize when your empathy becomes self-sacrifice. It took me years to understand that constantly putting someone else’s needs before my own wasn’t love...it was a pattern that led to resentment and losing myself in the process. Real love doesn’t require you to abandon who you are. Sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is maintain your boundaries and not enable harmful behavior. Growth means learning that you can care deeply for someone without sacrificing your own well-being. #selflove #boundaries #relationships #codependency #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #selfcare #emotionalhealth #relationshippatterns #peoplepleasing #selfworth #healthyrelationships #innerwork #therapy #selfawareness #growth #love #wellness #mindset #recovery #selfcompassion #boundaries matter #healingjourney #relationshiphealing
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Misunderstandings will happen. Conflict will happen. That’s part of being human. You can explain yourself, open your heart, and speak your truth but you can’t control how others receive it. If someone chooses to walk away even after you’ve tried to explain yourself... let them. 

Their departure isn’t your failure…it’s their choice. Your peace isn’t found in making everyone understand you; it’s in knowing you showed up authentically. Some doors are meant to close so better ones can open. Trust the process. Trust yourself. 

#LetThemTheory #PersonalGrowth #Boundaries #SelfLove​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
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Misunderstandings will happen. Conflict will happen. That’s part of being human. You can explain yourself, open your heart, and speak your truth but you can’t control how others receive it. If someone chooses to walk away even after you’ve tried to explain yourself... let them. Their departure isn’t your failure…it’s their choice. Your peace isn’t found in making everyone understand you; it’s in knowing you showed up authentically. Some doors are meant to close so better ones can open. Trust the process. Trust yourself. #LetThemTheory #PersonalGrowth #Boundaries #SelfLove​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
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✨ A day late but the love is just as strong! Happy Mother's Day to my beautiful mom! ✨

Couldn’t let today pass without shouting out the woman who’s been my rock through it all. Thanks for always believing in me, even when I didn’t believe in myself.

Your wisdom, your laugh, your incredible strength – you amaze me every day. So blessed to call you Mom.

Love you beyond words! ❤️

#HappyMothersDay #BestMomEver #Blessed #FamilyFirst​​​​​
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✨ A day late but the love is just as strong! Happy Mother's Day to my beautiful mom! ✨ Couldn’t let today pass without shouting out the woman who’s been my rock through it all. Thanks for always believing in me, even when I didn’t believe in myself. Your wisdom, your laugh, your incredible strength – you amaze me every day. So blessed to call you Mom. Love you beyond words! ❤️ #HappyMothersDay #BestMomEver #Blessed #FamilyFirst​​​​​
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Speak Up to Express Your Needs! Ever notice how waiting for “the right time” to express your needs often means they never get addressed? I share my journey of realizing that while we should avoid conversations when emotions are flooding, consistently postponing our needs leads to dangerous resentment. 

Learn the balance between giving space during heightened emotions and still honoring your boundaries through calm, intentional conflict. Discover how speaking up prevents resentment while still respecting emotional states—a critical skill for healthier relationships.

#RelationshipAdvice #HealthyBoundaries #ExpressingNeeds #EmotionalRegulation #PreventingResentment #HealthyConflict #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #SettingBoundaries #ConflictResolution #RelationshipTips #EmotionalFlooding #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipPsychology #CalmDiscussions #AvoidingResentment #HealthyArguing #RelationshipHealing #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalAwareness
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Speak Up to Express Your Needs! Ever notice how waiting for “the right time” to express your needs often means they never get addressed? I share my journey of realizing that while we should avoid conversations when emotions are flooding, consistently postponing our needs leads to dangerous resentment. Learn the balance between giving space during heightened emotions and still honoring your boundaries through calm, intentional conflict. Discover how speaking up prevents resentment while still respecting emotional states—a critical skill for healthier relationships. #RelationshipAdvice #HealthyBoundaries #ExpressingNeeds #EmotionalRegulation #PreventingResentment #HealthyConflict #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #SettingBoundaries #ConflictResolution #RelationshipTips #EmotionalFlooding #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipPsychology #CalmDiscussions #AvoidingResentment #HealthyArguing #RelationshipHealing #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalAwareness
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