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Find Love Online

60 MINUTE - profile creation / makeover session
+ ONLINE DATING PROGRAM

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Are you frustrated with dating online and seeing no positive results?

Do you feel stuck because you don't know what you're doing online?

Are you tired of your inbox filled with people you don't have any chemistry with?

If you answered yes, I want you to know it’s not your fault. Most singles don’t understand the psychology of online dating, so they just throw darts at a board and hope it lands. Without any training or a “how to guide,” how the heck are you supposed to be successful? 

Right now, you might be attracting commitment-phobes, no one worth taking seriously, or not even dating at all. By your standards, these are not the results you want or expect.

What if I told you that it didn’t have to be that way?

After all, I know how you feel… I’ve been in your shoes. I’m Amie Leadingham, a Master Certified Relationship Coach who has been named one of LA’s Best Dating Coaches. With years of struggling with dating, I made it my mission to research everything around online dating.  

When I returned to dating with the knowledge I had gathered from proven studies and scientific data, I made simple tweaks to my profile and approached online dating with my new dating hacks. Soon after, my results began to change, and the quality dates started to roll in! 

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And guess what? In a short amount of time, I met my husband on an online dating site. Together, we will find your match too!

I want to pass my knowledge on to you of how to meet a quality partner online, someone you will have a real connection with, a person you can call the love of your life. If this is what you are looking for, then you are in the right place. 

Life and careers keep many people busy. Time is money and nobody wants to waste time online unless they have a sure chance of success. I’ll help you take the confusion out of online dating, ease your anxiety, and make it fun again…all while attracting more quality singles. 

Join me in this 60-minute profile review session, where I’ll share with you the secrets of what WORKS with online dating and what doesn’t. 

I promise you there are singles of your caliber out there looking for the same thing you want. I've done the research so that you don't have to.

My goal is to help you avoid online dating mistakes that ruin your chance of success. Instead, I‘ll share proven processes and online dating studies to help you find more quality matches.

“Now I can say that I'm actually pretty confident about giving online dating another go! I'm excited about putting up my new profile and taking control of my love life. This is a deliberate, systematic approach to online dating, that's fun at the same time."
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You have the power to take the initiative and change your results. Take action today, your dating opportunities are waiting for you to get online. Click below and let's get started.

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Here's what we'll accomplish with our time together:

  • CREATE AN ONLINE DATING PROFILE THAT STANDS OUT - I'll share my secrets on what makes a good vs. bad dating profile and big NO NO's to avoid. Also, I'll provide an easy to follow profile creation template that has proven success.
  • PICK PHOTOS THAT MAKE YOU SHINE- People are visual, your photos are their first impressions, I'll help you understand which ones will attract the quality singles you want, and which photos you should avoid sharing.
  • CREATE AN EYE-CATCHING USERNAME - Discover the usernames that make your ideal singles click.
  • DISCOVER SECRETS ON HOW TO TURN MESSAGES INTO A DATE - Learn how to come across as genuine and authentic online so that you can land a first date and avoid pen pal syndrome.
  • HOW TO CATCH A CATFISH AND AVOID ONLINE LIARS - Learn my secrets to seeing if someone is lying to you online and improve your skills at screening someone before you meet.
  • ONLINE DATING SAFETY - Of course the more prepared we are with online dating safety, the better we will safeguard ourselves from online dating dangers.
  • LEARN HOW TO WRITE AN "I'M INTERESTED" IN YOU MESSAGE - Connect with your online interest in a smart and authentic way that makes you irresistible. I will provide some message examples as well as tips and tricks for messaging while using online dating websites and apps.
  • DISCOVER DATING TRAPS TO AVOID - Learn how to avoid 14 common dating traps and get tips on how to attract your forever relationship.
  • BONUS DATING RED FLAGS CHECKLIST ($29 Value) - My powerful checklist will warn you about red flags during the dating process. The checklist will also help you decide whether you should continue dating or call it quits. No more settling in the wrong relationship!
  • BONUS RELATIONSHIP READINESS ASSESSMENT ($29 Value) - Find out your level of readiness for a relationship with this revealing assessment and discover areas that you need to improve to find your match.
Now I can say that I'm actually pretty confident about giving online dating another go! I'm excited about putting up my new profile and taking control of my love life. This is a deliberate systematic approach to online dating, that's fun at the same time.
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Meet Master Certified Relationship Coach, named one of LA's Best Dating Coaches, Amie Leadingham.

Amie is Master Certified Relationship Coach. Her relationship coaching and mentoring services help singles from around the world find love with her genuine and authentic approach called Conscious Dating.

Her mission is to inspire, cultivate, and empower these singles to find lasting love by loving themselves first and never settling for less!

Her dedication and passion have led to Amie being named one of LA’s “Best Dating Coaches” by Dating Advice. Amie has been featured in a variety of media outlets including the CBS Network, Fox 5 News, People Entertainment Weekly Channel, HelloGiggles TV, LiveStrong, Martha Stewart Weddings, and more. Amie is the Author of “A Women’s Handbook to Online Dating."

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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt 

I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table.

Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters.

So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕

#LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table. Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters. So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕 #LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect.

Here’s what conscious dating taught me:

✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals?

✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy

✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love

✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you

You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period.

What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇

#ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect. Here’s what conscious dating taught me: ✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals? ✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy ✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love ✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period. What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇 #ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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As a dating coach who’s worked with thousands of clients over the years, I can tell you that the three-month relationship pattern is one of the most common issues I see.⁠
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You meet someone, everything feels magical, and you’re convinced this could be “the one.” Then, like clockwork, around month three, something shifts. The spark fades, doubts creep in, and before you know it, you’re single again, wondering what went wrong.⁠
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If this sounds like your dating story on repeat, I want you to know that you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone.⁠
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There are very real psychological and biological reasons why this keeps happening, and once you understand them, you can start making different choices.⁠
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Read the full article to discover what is literally working against you in early stages of dating (and how to outsmart it) ⁠
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https://amiethedatingcoach.com/why-relationships-end-at-3-months-and-what-to-do/⁠
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#3monthfizzle #relationshipbreakup #datingpattern #threemonthpattern #breakthecycle #datingadvice #datingtips
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As a dating coach who’s worked with thousands of clients over the years, I can tell you that the three-month relationship pattern is one of the most common issues I see.⁠ ⁠ You meet someone, everything feels magical, and you’re convinced this could be “the one.” Then, like clockwork, around month three, something shifts. The spark fades, doubts creep in, and before you know it, you’re single again, wondering what went wrong.⁠ ⁠ If this sounds like your dating story on repeat, I want you to know that you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone.⁠ ⁠ There are very real psychological and biological reasons why this keeps happening, and once you understand them, you can start making different choices.⁠ ⁠ Read the full article to discover what is literally working against you in early stages of dating (and how to outsmart it) ⁠ ⁠ https://amiethedatingcoach.com/why-relationships-end-at-3-months-and-what-to-do/⁠ ⁠ #3monthfizzle #relationshipbreakup #datingpattern #threemonthpattern #breakthecycle #datingadvice #datingtips
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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️

Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise!

We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together.

Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶

Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕

Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

#13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️

Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise!

We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together.

Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶

Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕

Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

#13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️ Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise! We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together. Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶 Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕 Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ #13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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The Fine Line Between Compassion and Self-Abandonment

Learning to recognize when your empathy becomes self-sacrifice. It took me years to understand that constantly putting someone else’s needs before my own wasn’t love...it was a pattern that led to resentment and losing myself in the process. 

Real love doesn’t require you to abandon who you are. Sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is maintain your boundaries and not enable harmful behavior. 

Growth means learning that you can care deeply for someone without sacrificing your own well-being.

#selflove #boundaries #relationships #codependency #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #selfcare #emotionalhealth #relationshippatterns #peoplepleasing #selfworth #healthyrelationships #innerwork #therapy #selfawareness #growth #love #wellness #mindset #recovery #selfcompassion #boundaries matter #healingjourney #relationshiphealing
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The Fine Line Between Compassion and Self-Abandonment Learning to recognize when your empathy becomes self-sacrifice. It took me years to understand that constantly putting someone else’s needs before my own wasn’t love...it was a pattern that led to resentment and losing myself in the process. Real love doesn’t require you to abandon who you are. Sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is maintain your boundaries and not enable harmful behavior. Growth means learning that you can care deeply for someone without sacrificing your own well-being. #selflove #boundaries #relationships #codependency #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #selfcare #emotionalhealth #relationshippatterns #peoplepleasing #selfworth #healthyrelationships #innerwork #therapy #selfawareness #growth #love #wellness #mindset #recovery #selfcompassion #boundaries matter #healingjourney #relationshiphealing
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