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Your Dating Coach

Meet Master Certified relationship Coach,
Amie leadingham

Most dating issues come from faulty programming that makes singles settle for wrong relationships, rescue partners that can’t love them the way they deserve or do not have the confidence to attract a meaningful relationship because they feel like they are not good enough. Amie works with singles to help them release these limiting beliefs and gain clarity about what a GOOD relationship looks like for them. 

As a result, singles can change the way they approach dating, make conscious relationship choices, and find a partner that offers the healthy and happy relationship they deserve. These same tools helped Amie find love that she never thought was possible as by doing this work she met her loving husband Kevin.


If you are struggling with feeling like you are lost with dating and secretly wonder if real love truly exist for you, you are in the right place.

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The Journey

My Story

Much like you, I struggled with dating and relationships for years. The toughest thing I had to do is to look in the mirror and admit, I was the common denominator in all my relationships, that “I” made the choices to stay (even when things were really BAD). After years of dating frustration, I came to realize that there were patterns in my choices that lead to my negative experiences. The hard truth was my “dating picker” was broken.

I truly believe in my heart that no one is broken beyond repair.

To have the amazing relationship that you deserve, you have to start with loving yourself enough to do the work and invest in your own happiness (and that’s exactly what I did). 

I made it my mission to become conscious about myself, learning everything I could about dating and relationships. My quest for knowledge had me participating in different dating workshops and relationship training where I discovered a new approach called Conscious Dating.

When I returned to dating with my new Conscious Dating philosophy, I stopped wasting my time on emotionally unavailable partners, my confidence was BOOSTED, and within a short time, my dating experience completely changed.

Soon after, I met the love of my life. If you are here because you want the same, I can help.

 

My personal experience inspired me to start empowering singles (just like YOU) to open themselves up to the love and life they really deserve. I’m committed to being your non-judgmental personal trainer for love, safe soundboard, and coach to inspire + cheer you on through your fun and liberating journey to finding the love you deserve.

Let’s make a commitment today, from this point on…NO more settling, NO more frustration, and NO more heartache.

The universe brought us together for a reason, your intuition is right. This is your year to truly be self-FULL and find lasting love. To connect schedule a free Relationship Readiness Review with me here.

I’m rooting for you,

Professional Bio

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Amie became a Certified Master Relationship and Mentor Coach receiving her training at the Relationship Coaching Institute. Since then, Amie’s relationship coaching and mentoring support have empowered singles to discover their true authentic selves for the first time. Her non-judgmental approach allows people to feel safe and open to communicate freely.

Once her clients have discovered the true value of who they are by having employed a newly ingrained belief system, they often attract the meaningful relationship they never thought was possible before. Many of Amie’s clients also develop a new and better relationship with themselves and those around them.

Her mission is to inspire, cultivate, and empower singles to their highest potential. Her dedication and passion has led her to be named one of LA’s Best Dating Coaches by Dating Advice. She now works with clients virtually everywhere.

She has also been featured on ABC News, CBS Network (Channel 8), Fox 5 News, People Magazine, Oprah Daily, BRIDES, InStyle, Cosmopolitan, Nev Schulman and Laura Perlongo’s We Need to Talk, I’ve Got a Secret with Robin McGraw Podcast, and more. She is the author of “A Woman’s Handbook to Online Dating”.

Her biggest accomplishments come from seeing the singles she works with find lasting love, get married, and create their own family.

Training and certifications:

  • Lead Mentor Coach, Past Faculty, Relationship Coaching Institute
  • Relationship Coach Trained & Certified, Relationship Coaching Institute
  • Master Certified Coach, Center for Coaching Certification
  • Certified Professional Coach, Center for Coaching Certification
  • Bachelor of Science, Business, Cal Poly Pomona
  • The Daring GreatlyTM Program for Therapists, Coaches and Helping Professionals
  • Science of Well-Being Coursera Completed, Yale University
  • Coaching for Self-Leadership: Internal Family Systems Institute
  • Active Member of International Coach Federation

Recognition:

  • Named The Best Dating Coaches in Los Angeles by Datezie.com
  • Named one of LA’s Best Dating Coaches in Los Angeles by DatingAdvice.com
  • Named one of Best Online Dating Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com

Be The Chooser

Take Charge Of your life

We are the common denominator in all our relationships. Without understanding our unconscious patterns, we risk repeating our toxic relationship choices over and over again. It is time to open your heart to the kind of love you absolutely deserve.  

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#1 What is your favorite vacation spot?

Koh Phangan,Thailand

#2 What is the best advice you have ever received?

Like attracts like, love is an inside job

#3 What are your favorite hobbies?

Painting + anything art, playing guitar, singing, and cooking

#4 What’s something not a lot of people know?

I went spelunking once in Belize

#5 What’s something You can’t live without?

My family, my pugs, & travel 

#6 What is your favorite food?

I am obsessed with sushi (we make it at home)

#7 What’s your secret talent?

I’m Mrs. Fix it, I wear the toolbelt in my household

#8 What’s Your Favorite Inspirational Quote?

“Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear.” – George Addair

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Here’s the truth about attachment styles that I wish someone had told me sooner: they’re not your permanent sentence.

In my recent interview with @fountain_hrt , we dove deep into this myth that your attachment style is just who you are forever. But here’s what I’ve learned and what the research actually shows…attachment styles can absolutely change when both people are willing to do the inner work.

I used to think I was just “anxiously attached” and that was it. That my partner was “avoidant” and we were doomed to this endless cycle. But when we both started looking inward, doing our own healing, and showing up differently for each other, something beautiful happened. We started creating new patterns together.

It’s not easy work. It means sitting with your triggers instead of reacting from them. It means your partner doing the same. It means having those uncomfortable conversations and choosing connection over being right. But it’s possible.

Your nervous system learned these patterns to protect you, and with patience and intention, it can learn new ones too. You’re not broken. Your relationship isn’t doomed. Change is possible when you’re both willing to grow.

#AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipHealing #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantAttachment #SecureAttachment #RelationshipGrowth #HealingTogether #RelationshipTherapy #AttachmentHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipTips #HealingJourney #FountainHRT #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #CouplesTherapy #AttachmentTrauma #LoveAndHealing
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Here’s the truth about attachment styles that I wish someone had told me sooner: they’re not your permanent sentence. In my recent interview with @fountain_hrt , we dove deep into this myth that your attachment style is just who you are forever. But here’s what I’ve learned and what the research actually shows…attachment styles can absolutely change when both people are willing to do the inner work. I used to think I was just “anxiously attached” and that was it. That my partner was “avoidant” and we were doomed to this endless cycle. But when we both started looking inward, doing our own healing, and showing up differently for each other, something beautiful happened. We started creating new patterns together. It’s not easy work. It means sitting with your triggers instead of reacting from them. It means your partner doing the same. It means having those uncomfortable conversations and choosing connection over being right. But it’s possible. Your nervous system learned these patterns to protect you, and with patience and intention, it can learn new ones too. You’re not broken. Your relationship isn’t doomed. Change is possible when you’re both willing to grow. #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipHealing #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantAttachment #SecureAttachment #RelationshipGrowth #HealingTogether #RelationshipTherapy #AttachmentHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipTips #HealingJourney #FountainHRT #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #CouplesTherapy #AttachmentTrauma #LoveAndHealing
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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt 

I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table.

Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters.

So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕

#LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table. Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters. So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕 #LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect.

Here’s what conscious dating taught me:

✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals?

✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy

✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love

✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you

You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period.

What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇

#ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect. Here’s what conscious dating taught me: ✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals? ✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy ✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love ✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period. What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇 #ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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As a dating coach who’s worked with thousands of clients over the years, I can tell you that the three-month relationship pattern is one of the most common issues I see.⁠
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You meet someone, everything feels magical, and you’re convinced this could be “the one.” Then, like clockwork, around month three, something shifts. The spark fades, doubts creep in, and before you know it, you’re single again, wondering what went wrong.⁠
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If this sounds like your dating story on repeat, I want you to know that you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone.⁠
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There are very real psychological and biological reasons why this keeps happening, and once you understand them, you can start making different choices.⁠
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Read the full article to discover what is literally working against you in early stages of dating (and how to outsmart it) ⁠
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https://amiethedatingcoach.com/why-relationships-end-at-3-months-and-what-to-do/⁠
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#3monthfizzle #relationshipbreakup #datingpattern #threemonthpattern #breakthecycle #datingadvice #datingtips
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As a dating coach who’s worked with thousands of clients over the years, I can tell you that the three-month relationship pattern is one of the most common issues I see.⁠ ⁠ You meet someone, everything feels magical, and you’re convinced this could be “the one.” Then, like clockwork, around month three, something shifts. The spark fades, doubts creep in, and before you know it, you’re single again, wondering what went wrong.⁠ ⁠ If this sounds like your dating story on repeat, I want you to know that you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone.⁠ ⁠ There are very real psychological and biological reasons why this keeps happening, and once you understand them, you can start making different choices.⁠ ⁠ Read the full article to discover what is literally working against you in early stages of dating (and how to outsmart it) ⁠ ⁠ https://amiethedatingcoach.com/why-relationships-end-at-3-months-and-what-to-do/⁠ ⁠ #3monthfizzle #relationshipbreakup #datingpattern #threemonthpattern #breakthecycle #datingadvice #datingtips
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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️

Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise!

We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together.

Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶

Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕

Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

#13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️

Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise!

We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together.

Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶

Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕

Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

#13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️ Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise! We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together. Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶 Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕 Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ #13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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