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Why Do I Keep Ending Up in Situationships?

April 8, 2026

I see this every single day in my coaching practice. Where smart, beautiful, deeply loving people keep finding themselves in the same place: emotionally invested in someone who won't fully commit, stuck in a relationship with no label, no future, and no real foundation. A situationship. And the first thing I want you to hear me say is this: it is not a co[...]

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10 Signs You’re Dating Someone Securely Attached

March 20, 2026

If you're anxious or avoidant, dating someone securely attached could actually rewire your nervous system and calm your triggers 🧠💕 In this video, I'm breaking down the 10 key signs that show you're with a securely attached partner and why that matters for your nervous system, your mental health, and your ability to feel safe in love. D[...]

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5 Signs You’re Being Played

March 18, 2026

Let's talk about those pesky players out there! And oh boy, have I had my share back in the day. I care about you, so I'm not going to sugarcoat this. Being played is one of the most disorienting, confusing, and emotionally exhausting things you can experience in dating. Why? Because when someone is playing you, they're usually really good at hiding it. I[...]

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7 Signs of Emotional Intelligence in Dating

March 11, 2026

If you've been dating for a while and keep hitting the same walls: the communication breakdowns, the people who seem great at first but can't handle conflict, the relationships that start hot and fizzle fast. I want you to consider something: the missing piece might not be finding the right person. It might be emotional intelligence. EQ, or emotional inte[...]

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The Dating Trap of Being Hyper Independent 💔

Your biggest strength can become your biggest weaknesses, especially when it comes to love. 

What’s one thing you can do to be a little bit more vulnerable today? I want to hear from you, leave a comment below. 

We talk more about this of my blog, the link is in the bio - https://amiethedatingcoach.com/hello-from-instagram

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The Dating Trap of Being Hyper Independent 💔 Your biggest strength can become your biggest weaknesses, especially when it comes to love. What’s one thing you can do to be a little bit more vulnerable today? I want to hear from you, leave a comment below. We talk more about this of my blog, the link is in the bio - https://amiethedatingcoach.com/hello-from-instagram #hyperindependence #traumaresponse #vulnerabilityisstrength #intimacy #connection
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Sometimes loving hard isn’t the problem… 👀. If you keep ending up hurt by the same kind of person, watch this. 

If you’re ready to break the cycle. Let’s connect. Link in bio. 💌

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Sometimes loving hard isn’t the problem… 👀. If you keep ending up hurt by the same kind of person, watch this. If you’re ready to break the cycle. Let’s connect. Link in bio. 💌 #emotionallyunavailable #attachmentstyles #datingadvice #toxicrelationship
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The #1 Sign they’re Emotionally Available 👀

Want to stop falling for emotionally distant partners? Grab my FREE 5 Dating Traps ebook 👉 link in bio 💛

Link: https://amiethedatingcoach.com/hello-from-instagram

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The #1 Sign they’re Emotionally Available 👀 Want to stop falling for emotionally distant partners? Grab my FREE 5 Dating Traps ebook 👉 link in bio 💛 Link: https://amiethedatingcoach.com/hello-from-instagram #emotionallyavailable #emotionallyunavailable #healthyrelationships #anxiousattachment
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Who you share your love life with matters more than you think. 

💛 Grab my free ebook in my bio. 

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Who you share your love life with matters more than you think. 💛 Grab my free ebook in my bio. #innercircle #datingadvice #datingcoach #relationshipadvice #datingtips
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Today I’m humbled to share that @feedspotdotcom included me in their Top 70 Dating Instagram Influencers of 2026. 

Thank you to the Feedspot team for the thoughtful work behind this list, and for valuing real connection.

To this community, thank you for your trust, your stories, and your questions. This reflects you.

And I’m honored to be alongside so many creators I admire. Explore the full list 👇 link: https://influencers.feedspot.com/dating_instagram_influencers

If you want more support with Conscious Dating, comment below CONSCIOUS and I’ll send you my free ebook! 

#Feedspot #DatingCoach #RelationshipCoach #ModernDating
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Today I’m humbled to share that @feedspotdotcom included me in their Top 70 Dating Instagram Influencers of 2026. Thank you to the Feedspot team for the thoughtful work behind this list, and for valuing real connection. To this community, thank you for your trust, your stories, and your questions. This reflects you. And I’m honored to be alongside so many creators I admire. Explore the full list 👇 link: https://influencers.feedspot.com/dating_instagram_influencers If you want more support with Conscious Dating, comment below CONSCIOUS and I’ll send you my free ebook! #Feedspot #DatingCoach #RelationshipCoach #ModernDating
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