As a dating coach who has worked with countless singles, I've noticed a pattern of avoidance that has kept many singles lonely in the world of love. If you find yourself pulling away just when things start getting serious, I want you to know you're not broken. You're operating from old programming that was ingrained before you even knew what healthy love was supposed to look like. Maybe you're the person who suddenly gets "busy" when someone starts showing vulnerability. Or you catch yourself creating distance t[...]