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Is it a Trauma Bond or a Real Connection?

March 28, 2023

When it comes to dating, love and relationships, it can be difficult to differentiate between a real connection and trauma bonding. Trauma bonding is when two people are emotionally attached in unhealthy ways due to the euphoric high of extreme highs and lows associated with ongoing conflict or drama. It’s not uncommon for people to engage in this non-beneficial behavior because they may fall into the same patterns unknowingly -- mistaking the feeling of being “drawn together” as indicating a true connecti[...]

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3 Powerful Ways to Heal and Stop Attracting Narcissists

February 7, 2023

If you feel like you're constantly attracting narcissists and toxic partners, it's time to acknowledge a pattern. This isn't the blame game; instead, it is about self-awareness and self-reflection, so we don't repeat the same toxic patterns. After all, we are the common denominator in all our relationships. Who we choose to bring into our lives is our choice. The good news is there are steps you can take to heal from past hurt and start attracting healthier relationships. This blog post will share three powerful[...]

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Are You Sabotaging Your Relationships Without Knowing It?

January 25, 2023

If you find yourself regularly self-sabotaging in your past relationships, it might be time to take a step back and figure out why. Whether it's fear of intimacy, commitment issues, or something else entirely, there could be a deep-rooted reason why you're repeatedly sabotaging your chances at happiness If you're ready to break the cycle, read on for some insight into why you might be self-sabotaging and what you can do about it. Why Do I Self-Sabotage? There could be many reasons that can lead to a person[...]

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Are You Ready For Love? 7 Signs You’re Truly Ready To Find The One

January 23, 2023

Are you ready for love? This is a question that many people ask themselves, and it's not always an easy answer. If you've been unlucky in love in the past, you may be wondering if you're ever going to find true happiness. Maybe you've been hurt by a previous partner, or maybe you've just had a string of bad luck when it comes to dating. Whatever the case may be, it's important to recognize negative patterns in your love life so that you can break them and open yourself up to finding real happiness. If you're[...]

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Speak Up to Express Your Needs! Ever notice how waiting for “the right time” to express your needs often means they never get addressed? I share my journey of realizing that while we should avoid conversations when emotions are flooding, consistently postponing our needs leads to dangerous resentment. 

Learn the balance between giving space during heightened emotions and still honoring your boundaries through calm, intentional conflict. Discover how speaking up prevents resentment while still respecting emotional states—a critical skill for healthier relationships.

#RelationshipAdvice #HealthyBoundaries #ExpressingNeeds #EmotionalRegulation #PreventingResentment #HealthyConflict #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #SettingBoundaries #ConflictResolution #RelationshipTips #EmotionalFlooding #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipPsychology #CalmDiscussions #AvoidingResentment #HealthyArguing #RelationshipHealing #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalAwareness
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Speak Up to Express Your Needs! Ever notice how waiting for “the right time” to express your needs often means they never get addressed? I share my journey of realizing that while we should avoid conversations when emotions are flooding, consistently postponing our needs leads to dangerous resentment. Learn the balance between giving space during heightened emotions and still honoring your boundaries through calm, intentional conflict. Discover how speaking up prevents resentment while still respecting emotional states—a critical skill for healthier relationships. #RelationshipAdvice #HealthyBoundaries #ExpressingNeeds #EmotionalRegulation #PreventingResentment #HealthyConflict #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #SettingBoundaries #ConflictResolution #RelationshipTips #EmotionalFlooding #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipPsychology #CalmDiscussions #AvoidingResentment #HealthyArguing #RelationshipHealing #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalAwareness
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When we truly become still and listen to understand others, something magical happens. By setting aside our mental chatter and focusing completely on what someone else is saying, we create a space of genuine connection.

Active listening isn’t just waiting for your turn to speak. It’s being fully present—noticing not just their words, but their tone, their body language, what remains unsaid. When we listen this deeply to others, we’re actually strengthening our ability to tune into our own inner voice.

Think about it: each time you quiet your mind to truly hear someone else, you’re practicing the very skill needed to hear yourself clearly. The mental stillness required for deep listening becomes a pathway to self-understanding.

Try this today: in your next conversation, take a deep breath and intentionally slow down. Notice when your mind starts forming responses before they’ve finished speaking. Gently return to simply being with their words. This same practice of quieting the noise helps us recognize our own inner wisdom when we need it most.

The gift of your complete attention is precious—both to others and to yourself.

#DeepListening #ActiveListening #InnerVoice #BeStill #MindfulConnections #ListenToUnderstand #MentalStillness #PresentMoment #ConsciousConversation #SelfAwareness #MindfulListening #AuthenticConnection #SlowDown #QuietTheMind #ListeningSkills #RelationshipWisdom #EmotionalIntelligence #MindfulCommunication #SoulfulListening #InnerWisdom
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When we truly become still and listen to understand others, something magical happens. By setting aside our mental chatter and focusing completely on what someone else is saying, we create a space of genuine connection. Active listening isn’t just waiting for your turn to speak. It’s being fully present—noticing not just their words, but their tone, their body language, what remains unsaid. When we listen this deeply to others, we’re actually strengthening our ability to tune into our own inner voice. Think about it: each time you quiet your mind to truly hear someone else, you’re practicing the very skill needed to hear yourself clearly. The mental stillness required for deep listening becomes a pathway to self-understanding. Try this today: in your next conversation, take a deep breath and intentionally slow down. Notice when your mind starts forming responses before they’ve finished speaking. Gently return to simply being with their words. This same practice of quieting the noise helps us recognize our own inner wisdom when we need it most. The gift of your complete attention is precious—both to others and to yourself. #DeepListening #ActiveListening #InnerVoice #BeStill #MindfulConnections #ListenToUnderstand #MentalStillness #PresentMoment #ConsciousConversation #SelfAwareness #MindfulListening #AuthenticConnection #SlowDown #QuietTheMind #ListeningSkills #RelationshipWisdom #EmotionalIntelligence #MindfulCommunication #SoulfulListening #InnerWisdom
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Being Too Understanding? It’s Hurting You! 🥹

There’s a fine line between being compassionate and being a doormat. Learn when empathy goes too far!

#lackofboundaries #lackofrespect #peoplepleasing #letthem #mentalhealth #selfawareness #datingadvice
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Being Too Understanding? It’s Hurting You! 🥹 There’s a fine line between being compassionate and being a doormat. Learn when empathy goes too far! #lackofboundaries #lackofrespect #peoplepleasing #letthem #mentalhealth #selfawareness #datingadvice
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I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
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I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them! Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕 #datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
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Ever noticed someone who wasn’t “traditionally attractive” yet somehow drew everyone’s attention? It wasn’t luck or accident—it was something much deeper.

The most magnetic people aren’t worried about looking perfect or saying all the “right” things. They’ve mastered something far more powerful... and I’m sharing my top 5 attraction secrets in my latest blog.

Want to know what singles consistently tell me are the most attractive qualities they find in potential partners? The answers might surprise you (and free you from so many unnecessary insecurities!) 

👉 Read the full blog at AmieTheDatingCoach.com or click the link in my bio!

#DatingAdvice #AttractionTips #DatingCoach #RelationshipGoals #AuthenticDating #SelfConfidence #DatingTips
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Ever noticed someone who wasn’t “traditionally attractive” yet somehow drew everyone’s attention? It wasn’t luck or accident—it was something much deeper. The most magnetic people aren’t worried about looking perfect or saying all the “right” things. They’ve mastered something far more powerful... and I’m sharing my top 5 attraction secrets in my latest blog. Want to know what singles consistently tell me are the most attractive qualities they find in potential partners? The answers might surprise you (and free you from so many unnecessary insecurities!) 👉 Read the full blog at AmieTheDatingCoach.com or click the link in my bio! #DatingAdvice #AttractionTips #DatingCoach #RelationshipGoals #AuthenticDating #SelfConfidence #DatingTips
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