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Law of Attraction

5 Things You Should Know Before You Start Online Dating

April 2, 2014

I recently guest posted on SingleDatingDiva's site about 5 Things You Should Know Before You Start Online Dating. Here's a snippet of the article below, but if you would like to read more... visit here. Navigating the Online Dating jungle is an acquired skill. If you’re single and dating, then you know what it’s like to weed through online dating profiles. Here are some tips to help you start off in the right direction so that your journey on the road to find your happily ever after is a positive one![...]

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LOVE success story. Congrats to the engaged couple!

October 4, 2013

  Congrats to Kate for meeting her soul mate! And thank you for allowing me to share your success story! Not too long ago Kate came to me ready to make a conscious change in her dating life. She was sick and tired of meeting all the wrong people. On paper the men she was dating all seemed like the right partner, however, she quickly gained awareness that there was a lot underneath she had not discovered. As time progressed she realized the relationship did not work for her and she was back to square one. Fr[...]

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Why Do My Relationships Fizzle So Quickly?

April 22, 2013

Simple answer, sometimes lust is easily mistaken for compatibility. When two people meet for the first time and sparks fly instantly, it can feel like love at first sight. You find yourself enamored and text each other non-stop, have long conversations over the phone, and anxiously waiting for your next date. You might even find yourself stuck inside your head, over analyzing about each move you make. Chemicals and hormones pumping through your body, making you feel "high on love" and you hear that little voice[...]

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Why online dating can be better than meeting someone at the bar!

August 16, 2012

Sometimes couples are so afraid to admit they met they online. My husband included! He told his friends that we met at restaurant, which was true because we had our first date there but we actually met online! I guess my point is....if you found an avenue that allows you to meet someone that you could have never met at a bar or through friends, why is it so embarrassing? Sometimes making yourself uncomfortable by trying new things allows you to grow as a person. Of course, all of us would like to stay in our comfor[...]

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Here’s the truth about attachment styles that I wish someone had told me sooner: they’re not your permanent sentence. In my recent interview with @fountain_hrt , we dove deep into this myth that your attachment style is just who you are forever. But here’s what I’ve learned and what the research actually shows…attachment styles can absolutely change when both people are willing to do the inner work. I used to think I was just “anxiously attached” and that was it. That my partner was “avoidant” and we were doomed to this endless cycle. But when we both started looking inward, doing our own healing, and showing up differently for each other, something beautiful happened. We started creating new patterns together. It’s not easy work. It means sitting with your triggers instead of reacting from them. It means your partner doing the same. It means having those uncomfortable conversations and choosing connection over being right. But it’s possible. Your nervous system learned these patterns to protect you, and with patience and intention, it can learn new ones too. You’re not broken. Your relationship isn’t doomed. Change is possible when you’re both willing to grow. #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipHealing #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantAttachment #SecureAttachment #RelationshipGrowth #HealingTogether #RelationshipTherapy #AttachmentHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipTips #HealingJourney #FountainHRT #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #CouplesTherapy #AttachmentTrauma #LoveAndHealing
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Here’s the truth about attachment styles that I wish someone had told me sooner: they’re not your permanent sentence. In my recent interview with @fountain_hrt , we dove deep into this myth that your attachment style is just who you are forever. But here’s what I’ve learned and what the research actually shows…attachment styles can absolutely change when both people are willing to do the inner work. I used to think I was just “anxiously attached” and that was it. That my partner was “avoidant” and we were doomed to this endless cycle. But when we both started looking inward, doing our own healing, and showing up differently for each other, something beautiful happened. We started creating new patterns together. It’s not easy work. It means sitting with your triggers instead of reacting from them. It means your partner doing the same. It means having those uncomfortable conversations and choosing connection over being right. But it’s possible. Your nervous system learned these patterns to protect you, and with patience and intention, it can learn new ones too. You’re not broken. Your relationship isn’t doomed. Change is possible when you’re both willing to grow. #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipHealing #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantAttachment #SecureAttachment #RelationshipGrowth #HealingTogether #RelationshipTherapy #AttachmentHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipTips #HealingJourney #FountainHRT #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #CouplesTherapy #AttachmentTrauma #LoveAndHealing
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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table. Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters. So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕 #LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table. Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters. So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕 #LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect. Here’s what conscious dating taught me: ✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals? ✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy ✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love ✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period. What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇 #ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect. Here’s what conscious dating taught me: ✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals? ✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy ✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love ✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period. What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇 #ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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As a dating coach who’s worked with thousands of clients over the years, I can tell you that the three-month relationship pattern is one of the most common issues I see.⁠ ⁠ You meet someone, everything feels magical, and you’re convinced this could be “the one.” Then, like clockwork, around month three, something shifts. The spark fades, doubts creep in, and before you know it, you’re single again, wondering what went wrong.⁠ ⁠ If this sounds like your dating story on repeat, I want you to know that you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone.⁠ ⁠ There are very real psychological and biological reasons why this keeps happening, and once you understand them, you can start making different choices.⁠ ⁠ Read the full article to discover what is literally working against you in early stages of dating (and how to outsmart it) ⁠ ⁠ https://amiethedatingcoach.com/why-relationships-end-at-3-months-and-what-to-do/⁠ ⁠ #3monthfizzle #relationshipbreakup #datingpattern #threemonthpattern #breakthecycle #datingadvice #datingtips
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As a dating coach who’s worked with thousands of clients over the years, I can tell you that the three-month relationship pattern is one of the most common issues I see.⁠ ⁠ You meet someone, everything feels magical, and you’re convinced this could be “the one.” Then, like clockwork, around month three, something shifts. The spark fades, doubts creep in, and before you know it, you’re single again, wondering what went wrong.⁠ ⁠ If this sounds like your dating story on repeat, I want you to know that you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone.⁠ ⁠ There are very real psychological and biological reasons why this keeps happening, and once you understand them, you can start making different choices.⁠ ⁠ Read the full article to discover what is literally working against you in early stages of dating (and how to outsmart it) ⁠ ⁠ https://amiethedatingcoach.com/why-relationships-end-at-3-months-and-what-to-do/⁠ ⁠ #3monthfizzle #relationshipbreakup #datingpattern #threemonthpattern #breakthecycle #datingadvice #datingtips
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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️ Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise! We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together. Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶 Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕 Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ #13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️ Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise! We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together. Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶 Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕 Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ #13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️ Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise! We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together. Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶 Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕 Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ #13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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