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Why You Attract Avoidant Partners Who Pull Away (And How to Stop)

March 4, 2025

You sit across from someone you just started dating at dinner, feeling that familiar knot in your stomach as they mentioned earlier they "need space" this weekend...again. You're trying not to spiral into anxiety. Sound familiar? If you're wondering why you keep finding yourself with partners who maintain emotional distance, you're experiencing what many of my clients describe as a frustrating cycle of connection and disconnection. I've worked with so many people who've dated three, four, even five consecut[...]

How to be Vulnerable with Someone You Just Started Dating

February 11, 2025

You're heart starts racing, wondering if it's time to share that part of your story. We've all been there – that moment when you want to open up but worry if it's too soon or how they'll react. In this video, I'm sharing my own journey and the exact steps that helped me (and can help you) share your past with someone new. No more second-guessing or losing sleep over the "right time." I remember how terrifying it felt to be vulnerable with someone I was just getting to know. That's why I'm breaking down exactly[...]

How to Avoid Getting Stuck in Situationships

February 4, 2025

Let's talk about situationships – those confusing almost-relationships that leave you wondering, "What are we?" while simultaneously trying to convince yourself you're cool with the ambiguity. Been there, done that, got the emotional baggage to prove it. But here's the thing: you deserve clarity, commitment, and a relationship that aligns with your values. Let me share some hard-earned wisdom on how to dodge these emotional minefields. Know Your Non-Negotiables Your non-negotiables aren't just a wishlist - they[...]

Dating with Herpes: Finding Love and Self-Acceptance

January 24, 2025

I often only focus on dating relationships and online dating tips. However, in recent times, I've encountered people reaching out to me after receiving a herpes diagnosis, their hearts heavy with uncertainty about their dating future. I understand, and this is why I was compelled to write this article – finding love can feel challenging enough on its own. Add a viral STI like herpes to the equation, and the dating landscape might seem impossible to navigate. But here's what I've learned from helping countless i[...]