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What Qualities Make a Good Partner?

December 3, 2025

I really wanted a good partner, but it seemed like I had been looking for love in all the wrong places. I was successful in my career, had amazing friends, but my dating life? Let's just say I sucked at it. And the hardest pill to swallow was admitting that I was the common denominator in all my failed relationships. My dating picker was broken. That is when I went on my own self-discovery journey and started to learn everything I could get my hands on about dating and relationships. When I returned to dating, I[...]

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7 Self-Sabotaging Behaviors That Ruin Relationships

November 21, 2025

As a dating coach, I've worked with countless clients who come to me frustrated, heartbroken, and confused. They're amazing people. Successful in their careers, attractive, intelligent... yet they can't seem to make a relationship last. The conversation usually starts the same way: "Amie, I don't know what's wrong with me. Every relationship ends the same way." The truth is, most relationship failures aren't about bad luck or not finding "the one." They're about patterns of self-sabotage that we repeat without eve[...]

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5 Questions That Show They’re Ready for A Relationship

November 13, 2025

I've been coaching singles for over a decade, and I can tell you this: the difference between wasting years on someone who "might be ready someday" and building something real with someone who's actually available? It comes down to asking the right questions early. And I'm not talking about surface-level stuff here. I'm talking about the questions that cut through all the BS and reveal whether someone is truly relationship-ready or just enjoying your company until something "better" comes along. You know that[...]

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What Your Dating Profile Photos Say About You

October 31, 2025

Look, I've been coaching singles for over a decade, and I can tell you this: your online dating photos are doing ALL the talking before you even get a chance to say hello. They're your first impression, your opening line, and your chance to show who you really are... all wrapped up in a few squares on a screen. So let's break down what your dating profile photo choices are actually saying about you. And trust me, sometimes the message you're sending isn't the one you think you're sending. Too Many Group Shots[...]

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Today I’m humbled to share that @feedspotdotcom included me in their Top 70 Dating Instagram Influencers of 2026. 

Thank you to the Feedspot team for the thoughtful work behind this list, and for valuing real connection.

To this community, thank you for your trust, your stories, and your questions. This reflects you.

And I’m honored to be alongside so many creators I admire. Explore the full list 👇 link: https://influencers.feedspot.com/dating_instagram_influencers

If you want more support with Conscious Dating, comment below CONSCIOUS and I’ll send you my free ebook! 

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Today I’m humbled to share that @feedspotdotcom included me in their Top 70 Dating Instagram Influencers of 2026. Thank you to the Feedspot team for the thoughtful work behind this list, and for valuing real connection. To this community, thank you for your trust, your stories, and your questions. This reflects you. And I’m honored to be alongside so many creators I admire. Explore the full list 👇 link: https://influencers.feedspot.com/dating_instagram_influencers If you want more support with Conscious Dating, comment below CONSCIOUS and I’ll send you my free ebook! #Feedspot #DatingCoach #RelationshipCoach #ModernDating
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Having Needs Doesn’t Make You Needy 🫶

Are holding back what you really feel just to keep the peace? 👀

You try to handle things the “right” way, gently and respectfully, and it still turns into a fight or the silent treatment. 

If that sounds familiar, this is a pattern worth paying attention to. Peace that comes from staying silent isn’t the same as feeling safe.

Watch to the end to find out what real safety in a relationship looks like. 💛

👉 Want to spot these patterns sooner? Grab my FREE ebook, 5 Dating Traps: link in bio 

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Having Needs Doesn’t Make You Needy 🫶 Are holding back what you really feel just to keep the peace? 👀 You try to handle things the “right” way, gently and respectfully, and it still turns into a fight or the silent treatment. If that sounds familiar, this is a pattern worth paying attention to. Peace that comes from staying silent isn’t the same as feeling safe. Watch to the end to find out what real safety in a relationship looks like. 💛 👉 Want to spot these patterns sooner? Grab my FREE ebook, 5 Dating Traps: link in bio #datingadvice #redflags #relationshipadvice #stonewalling #communication
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Remember to save this💌. You can be kind and still… 

If you’ve ever confused “being nice” with “abandoning your own needs,” that pattern shows up in dating too!

I put together a free guide on this: 5 Dating Traps… the sneaky patterns that keep good, kind people stuck in the wrong relationships.

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Remember to save this💌. You can be kind and still… If you’ve ever confused “being nice” with “abandoning your own needs,” that pattern shows up in dating too! I put together a free guide on this: 5 Dating Traps… the sneaky patterns that keep good, kind people stuck in the wrong relationships. 📩 Grab it free, link in bio! #datingadvice #boundaries #selfrespectquotes
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The one trait that makes someone irresistible and impossible to forget. Not what you’d guess. 

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The one trait that makes someone irresistible and impossible to forget. Not what you’d guess. Follow for more 🤍 #attractiontips #charisma #irresistible
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