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Is This Person Worth It? 10 Signs You’re Wasting Your Time in Dating

November 4, 2026

Have you ever been three months into dating someone and had a sinking feeling that something just isn’t right? Nothing dramatic happened. But things feel one-sided. You keep showing up, easygoing, hoping not to rock the boat. And one question keeps popping into your head: Is this person worth investing in, or am I just wasting my time? I’ve asked myself that more than once. Here’s what nobody told me back then: I wasn’t bad at dating. You could say I had a “bad picker.” But really, I kept attracti[...]

5 Early Signs of an Avoidant Partner (and How to Protect Your Heart)

October 10, 2026

They seem so into you. But right when things start to get deeper, you start to feel the distance. You try to bring that closeness back, but it feels like you’re hitting a wall. Then, right when you’re ready to let go… they reappear like nothing happened. If this hot-and-cold relationship feels painfully familiar, you might be dating an avoidant partner. And if you keep ending up with emotionally unavailable partners, it’s not bad luck. It’s a pattern, and patterns can change. In this video, I sha[...]

What Happens When You Stop Chasing an Avoidant

August 11, 2026

I've worked with countless singles over the years, and there's one story I hear more than almost any other: "I finally stopped chasing him... and everything changed." Sometimes it changes for the better. Sometimes it doesn't. But almost always, it changes you, and that's really what I want to talk about today. If you've ever loved someone avoidant, you know the dance. They pull close, you lean in. They pull back, you panic and reach further. It's exhausting, it's confusing, and if you're anything like my clients[...]

7 Toxic Relationship Red Flags You Might Not Recognize

July 21, 2026

Some red flags are obvious. Others may look like love, passion, or it's just "how they are" until you start looking deep enough to really see these are MAJOR red flags. Then you find yourself starting to wonder..." Is this really okay? It doesn't feel right to me." In this video, I'm walking through 7 toxic relationship red flags so you can spot them in the early stages of a relationship. The ones that are easy to miss because they don't feel like warning signs in the moment. 💬 Comment which number[...]