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5 Signs You’ve Found “The One” and Know It’s Real

December 26, 2025

After years of coaching singles through every relationship scenario imaginable, I can tell you that figuring out if someone is "the one" is one of the biggest sources of anxiety I see. And honestly? The confusion makes sense. We've been fed so many conflicting messages about love. Some people say you "just know," others say it takes years, and everyone's got an opinion. But here's what I've learned: finding your person isn't just about fireworks and fairy tales. It's about recognizing the right patterns, the[...]

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What Qualities Make a Good Partner?

December 3, 2025

I really wanted a good partner, but it seemed like I had been looking for love in all the wrong places. I was successful in my career, had amazing friends, but my dating life? Let's just say I sucked at it. And the hardest pill to swallow was admitting that I was the common denominator in all my failed relationships. My dating picker was broken. That is when I went on my own self-discovery journey and started to learn everything I could get my hands on about dating and relationships. When I returned to dating, I[...]

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7 Self-Sabotaging Behaviors That Ruin Relationships

November 21, 2025

As a dating coach, I've worked with countless clients who come to me frustrated, heartbroken, and confused. They're amazing people. Successful in their careers, attractive, intelligent... yet they can't seem to make a relationship last. The conversation usually starts the same way: "Amie, I don't know what's wrong with me. Every relationship ends the same way." The truth is, most relationship failures aren't about bad luck or not finding "the one." They're about patterns of self-sabotage that we repeat without eve[...]

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5 Questions That Show They’re Ready for A Relationship

November 13, 2025

I've been coaching singles for over a decade, and I can tell you this: the difference between wasting years on someone who "might be ready someday" and building something real with someone who's actually available? It comes down to asking the right questions early. And I'm not talking about surface-level stuff here. I'm talking about the questions that cut through all the BS and reveal whether someone is truly relationship-ready or just enjoying your company until something "better" comes along. You know that[...]

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The #1 sign of an emotionally mature partner 💛

I’ll be honest, I used to think attraction started from charm, big promises, grand gestures.  I thought that’s what a great partner looked like. It wasn’t. 🙋‍♀️

Here’s the real sign that tells you so much about how someone will love you.

#relationshipgreenflags #emotionalintelligence #emotionalmaturity #datingadvice
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Comment TRAP and I’ll send you my FREE ebook📖on how to break bad dating patterns and start choosing an emotionally healthy partner The #1 sign of an emotionally mature partner 💛 I’ll be honest, I used to think attraction started from charm, big promises, grand gestures.  I thought that’s what a great partner looked like. It wasn’t. 🙋‍♀️ Here’s the real sign that tells you so much about how someone will love you. #relationshipgreenflags #emotionalintelligence #emotionalmaturity #datingadvice
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In this interview with VICE I share the 4 questions I believe every person should ask themselves before getting married. Swipe 👈 to read the article! 

One of them is about something most couples never talk about until it’s too late. Another has to do with what your body is already telling you about your relationship. 👀

Thank you to Sammi Caramela and VICE for helping share this conversation. If you’re engaged, thinking about it, or just curious whether you’re with your person, this one’s for you.

🔗 https://www.vice.com/en/article/4-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-getting-married-according-to-a-relationship-coach

#relationshipcoach #marriage #engaged #relationshipadvice #VICE
In this interview with VICE I share the 4 questions I believe every person should ask themselves before getting married. Swipe 👈 to read the article! 

One of them is about something most couples never talk about until it’s too late. Another has to do with what your body is already telling you about your relationship. 👀

Thank you to Sammi Caramela and VICE for helping share this conversation. If you’re engaged, thinking about it, or just curious whether you’re with your person, this one’s for you.

🔗 https://www.vice.com/en/article/4-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-getting-married-according-to-a-relationship-coach

#relationshipcoach #marriage #engaged #relationshipadvice #VICE
In this interview with VICE I share the 4 questions I believe every person should ask themselves before getting married. Swipe 👈 to read the article! 

One of them is about something most couples never talk about until it’s too late. Another has to do with what your body is already telling you about your relationship. 👀

Thank you to Sammi Caramela and VICE for helping share this conversation. If you’re engaged, thinking about it, or just curious whether you’re with your person, this one’s for you.

🔗 https://www.vice.com/en/article/4-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-getting-married-according-to-a-relationship-coach

#relationshipcoach #marriage #engaged #relationshipadvice #VICE
In this interview with VICE I share the 4 questions I believe every person should ask themselves before getting married. Swipe 👈 to read the article! 

One of them is about something most couples never talk about until it’s too late. Another has to do with what your body is already telling you about your relationship. 👀

Thank you to Sammi Caramela and VICE for helping share this conversation. If you’re engaged, thinking about it, or just curious whether you’re with your person, this one’s for you.

🔗 https://www.vice.com/en/article/4-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-getting-married-according-to-a-relationship-coach

#relationshipcoach #marriage #engaged #relationshipadvice #VICE
In this interview with VICE I share the 4 questions I believe every person should ask themselves before getting married. Swipe 👈 to read the article! 

One of them is about something most couples never talk about until it’s too late. Another has to do with what your body is already telling you about your relationship. 👀

Thank you to Sammi Caramela and VICE for helping share this conversation. If you’re engaged, thinking about it, or just curious whether you’re with your person, this one’s for you.

🔗 https://www.vice.com/en/article/4-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-getting-married-according-to-a-relationship-coach

#relationshipcoach #marriage #engaged #relationshipadvice #VICE
In this interview with VICE I share the 4 questions I believe every person should ask themselves before getting married. Swipe 👈 to read the article! 

One of them is about something most couples never talk about until it’s too late. Another has to do with what your body is already telling you about your relationship. 👀

Thank you to Sammi Caramela and VICE for helping share this conversation. If you’re engaged, thinking about it, or just curious whether you’re with your person, this one’s for you.

🔗 https://www.vice.com/en/article/4-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-getting-married-according-to-a-relationship-coach

#relationshipcoach #marriage #engaged #relationshipadvice #VICE
In this interview with VICE I share the 4 questions I believe every person should ask themselves before getting married. Swipe 👈 to read the article! 

One of them is about something most couples never talk about until it’s too late. Another has to do with what your body is already telling you about your relationship. 👀

Thank you to Sammi Caramela and VICE for helping share this conversation. If you’re engaged, thinking about it, or just curious whether you’re with your person, this one’s for you.

🔗 https://www.vice.com/en/article/4-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-getting-married-according-to-a-relationship-coach

#relationshipcoach #marriage #engaged #relationshipadvice #VICE
In this interview with VICE I share the 4 questions I believe every person should ask themselves before getting married. Swipe 👈 to read the article! 

One of them is about something most couples never talk about until it’s too late. Another has to do with what your body is already telling you about your relationship. 👀

Thank you to Sammi Caramela and VICE for helping share this conversation. If you’re engaged, thinking about it, or just curious whether you’re with your person, this one’s for you.

🔗 https://www.vice.com/en/article/4-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-getting-married-according-to-a-relationship-coach

#relationshipcoach #marriage #engaged #relationshipadvice #VICE
In this interview with VICE I share the 4 questions I believe every person should ask themselves before getting married. Swipe 👈 to read the article! 

One of them is about something most couples never talk about until it’s too late. Another has to do with what your body is already telling you about your relationship. 👀

Thank you to Sammi Caramela and VICE for helping share this conversation. If you’re engaged, thinking about it, or just curious whether you’re with your person, this one’s for you.

🔗 https://www.vice.com/en/article/4-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-getting-married-according-to-a-relationship-coach

#relationshipcoach #marriage #engaged #relationshipadvice #VICE
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In this interview with VICE I share the 4 questions I believe every person should ask themselves before getting married. Swipe 👈 to read the article! One of them is about something most couples never talk about until it’s too late. Another has to do with what your body is already telling you about your relationship. 👀 Thank you to Sammi Caramela and VICE for helping share this conversation. If you’re engaged, thinking about it, or just curious whether you’re with your person, this one’s for you. 🔗 https://www.vice.com/en/article/4-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-getting-married-according-to-a-relationship-coach #relationshipcoach #marriage #engaged #relationshipadvice #VICE
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The Real Sign of Emotional Intelligence in a Partner ❤️

My free 5 Dating Traps ebook breaks down the patterns that keep us stuck with the wrong people. Grab it at the link in bio.

Be honest: what's the worst way someone has handled a fight with you? 👇

#emotionallyintelligent #emotionalmaturiy #conflict
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The Real Sign of Emotional Intelligence in a Partner ❤️ My free 5 Dating Traps ebook breaks down the patterns that keep us stuck with the wrong people. Grab it at the link in bio. Be honest: what's the worst way someone has handled a fight with you? 👇 #emotionallyintelligent #emotionalmaturiy #conflict
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The Dating Trap of Being Hyper Independent 💔

Your biggest strength can become your biggest weaknesses, especially when it comes to love. 

What’s one thing you can do to be a little bit more vulnerable today? I want to hear from you, leave a comment below. 

We talk more about this of my blog, the link is in the bio - https://amiethedatingcoach.com/hello-from-instagram

#hyperindependence #traumaresponse #vulnerabilityisstrength #intimacy #connection
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The Dating Trap of Being Hyper Independent 💔 Your biggest strength can become your biggest weaknesses, especially when it comes to love. What’s one thing you can do to be a little bit more vulnerable today? I want to hear from you, leave a comment below. We talk more about this of my blog, the link is in the bio - https://amiethedatingcoach.com/hello-from-instagram #hyperindependence #traumaresponse #vulnerabilityisstrength #intimacy #connection
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Sometimes loving hard isn’t the problem… 👀. If you keep ending up hurt by the same kind of person, watch this. 

If you’re ready to break the cycle. Let’s connect. Link in bio. 💌

#emotionallyunavailable #attachmentstyles #datingadvice #toxicrelationship
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Sometimes loving hard isn’t the problem… 👀. If you keep ending up hurt by the same kind of person, watch this. If you’re ready to break the cycle. Let’s connect. Link in bio. 💌 #emotionallyunavailable #attachmentstyles #datingadvice #toxicrelationship
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