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Should I Date Multiple People at Once?

June 8, 2023

Many singles I work with feel guilty when it comes to dating multiple people at once. It's common for people to date multiple individuals at once. But, is it a good idea for you? This is a question that comes up frequently for people who are looking for love. In this blog, we will explore the benefits of dating multiple people at once and let you decide whether or not it's the right approach for you. You Get a Better Understanding of What You Want: When you see multiple people, you're allowing yourself to[...]

Healthy Boundaries when Dating: How to Set and Respect Them

June 1, 2023

When I talk about boundaries with clients that struggle with people pleasing or perfectionism, I can see their faces clench up. They get uncomfortable because somewhere, they were taught that having boundaries is being needy versus having needs. As a recovering perfectionist, I get it. But that thinking is far from the truth! Without boundaries, you lose your voice and your inability to get your needs met. It's essential to approach dating with a clear head and a strong sense of self. This means understandin[...]

How to Fail Forward with Dating: Learning from Your Mistakes

May 17, 2023

Dating can bring up a host of emotions, from fear to excitement to apathy, but so many daters fail to see the connection between dating and having a growth mindset. Dating challenges and failures can also bring learning experiences. While the thought of failure can be intimidating, it's important to remember that mistakes can offer us valuable lessons. If you're currently in the dating scene, chances are, you've experienced your fair share of challenges. However, instead of letting those mistakes hold you bac[...]

How to Meet and Date People on Your Level

May 9, 2023

In this video, I delve into reasons why people often end up dating partners who might not be at the same level as them. The impact of family systems, poor self-esteem, and unresolved trauma from past experiences can lead to choosing relationships that ultimately fail to fulfill our needs. Fortunately, there are ways to overcome this pattern and finally attract a partner who is truly aligned with your aspirations. Inside I share five essential tips that can help you break the cycle of rescuing and fixing in relati[...]