Not everyone knows what good looks like in a relationship. A lot of people have grown up in environments where they never saw what ingredients are necessary to create lasting love between partners. Unfortunately, if you have never experienced what a good, healthy relationship looks like it can be nearly impossible to replicate those dynamics in your own love life. That is why I am sharing what green flags to look out for in a prospective partner that signals they are a keeper. Please keep in mind that love is a two[...]
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I am going to start this article by letting you know that I have a past that is chocked full of times of extreme trauma. The details of which I won’t get into for this article, but let’s just say that as a child and also as a young woman, traumatic events seemed to rain over my life in a way that made me feel like I had my own personal thunder cloud living over my head. This trauma greatly affected my relationships, both romantic and platonic, and caused me years of pain and inner turmoil. I often blamed mys[...]
Many people meet their partners at work. After all, when people spend a lot of time together, collaborating on projects, and having open vulnerable conversations, there is a good chance that romantic relationships will develop. However, if you are interested in someone at work it is important to be very intentional and careful about the way you go about pursuing someone you work with. Some companies have explicit policies that forbid colleagues from dating. As with any romantic relationship, make sure you only pu[...]
How come so many intelligent and well-adjusted people fall for this? Unfortunately, for the person in this situation, the Love Bomber techniques work off the human need to be loved and desired. The feelings one gets from being coveted by a Love Bomber can be so intense and powerful that it's kin to being drawn in by some invisible force field.