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Dating Deal-Breakers: Green Flags You Should Never Compromise

May 23, 2024

Many of us have become experts at identifying red flags, but it's equally crucial to recognize and prioritize the qualities that contribute to a healthy, happy partnership. Today we'll explore the key green flags that lay the foundation for a strong, supportive, and blissful relationship. From emotional intelligence and effective communication to shared values and genuine interest in your well-being, I'll dive deep into the characteristics that truly matter when building a lasting connection. You'll learn how to[...]

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Mastering the Art of Conversation on Dating Apps: When and How to Ask Someone Out

May 1, 2024

In the realm of online dating, knowing how to navigate conversations and when to take the leap and ask someone out can be anxiety-provoking. The key to success lies in building a genuine connection through thoughtful, engaging communication. It doesn't matter who is initiating the first meeting, so whether you are a man or a woman, the goal is to move the connection from being online to meeting in person. In this blog post, we'll explore the art of conversing on dating apps and provide examples of when and how to[...]

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10 Online Dating Red Flags You Shouldn’t Ignore

April 18, 2024

As much as I love online dating (I met my husband online), I also know how important it is to keep your eyes open for any potential red flags. Dating is dating, whether it's online or in-person, and you've got to protect your heart and your well-being. So, while you're swiping and chatting, just remember to trust your gut and look out for any warning signs. You deserve nothing but love, respect, and happiness in your relationships, online and off! Here are 10 online dating red flags to watch out for: 1. Inco[...]

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The Secret Signs Someone Is Highly Attracted To You

April 9, 2024

Have you ever wondered if that special someone is as into you as you are into them? Trying to figure out if that certain someone is feeling the same spark as you can be a wild ride. Trust me, I've been there too! It's like navigating a maze of mixed signals and hidden meanings, all while trying to keep your cool and not let on just how much you're crushing. I know how easy it is to get caught up in overanalyzing every little thing - did they really mean something by that comment, or are you just imagining it? Is t[...]

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Speak Up to Express Your Needs! Ever notice how waiting for “the right time” to express your needs often means they never get addressed? I share my journey of realizing that while we should avoid conversations when emotions are flooding, consistently postponing our needs leads to dangerous resentment. 

Learn the balance between giving space during heightened emotions and still honoring your boundaries through calm, intentional conflict. Discover how speaking up prevents resentment while still respecting emotional states—a critical skill for healthier relationships.

#RelationshipAdvice #HealthyBoundaries #ExpressingNeeds #EmotionalRegulation #PreventingResentment #HealthyConflict #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #SettingBoundaries #ConflictResolution #RelationshipTips #EmotionalFlooding #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipPsychology #CalmDiscussions #AvoidingResentment #HealthyArguing #RelationshipHealing #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalAwareness
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Speak Up to Express Your Needs! Ever notice how waiting for “the right time” to express your needs often means they never get addressed? I share my journey of realizing that while we should avoid conversations when emotions are flooding, consistently postponing our needs leads to dangerous resentment. Learn the balance between giving space during heightened emotions and still honoring your boundaries through calm, intentional conflict. Discover how speaking up prevents resentment while still respecting emotional states—a critical skill for healthier relationships. #RelationshipAdvice #HealthyBoundaries #ExpressingNeeds #EmotionalRegulation #PreventingResentment #HealthyConflict #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #SettingBoundaries #ConflictResolution #RelationshipTips #EmotionalFlooding #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipPsychology #CalmDiscussions #AvoidingResentment #HealthyArguing #RelationshipHealing #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalAwareness
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When we truly become still and listen to understand others, something magical happens. By setting aside our mental chatter and focusing completely on what someone else is saying, we create a space of genuine connection.

Active listening isn’t just waiting for your turn to speak. It’s being fully present—noticing not just their words, but their tone, their body language, what remains unsaid. When we listen this deeply to others, we’re actually strengthening our ability to tune into our own inner voice.

Think about it: each time you quiet your mind to truly hear someone else, you’re practicing the very skill needed to hear yourself clearly. The mental stillness required for deep listening becomes a pathway to self-understanding.

Try this today: in your next conversation, take a deep breath and intentionally slow down. Notice when your mind starts forming responses before they’ve finished speaking. Gently return to simply being with their words. This same practice of quieting the noise helps us recognize our own inner wisdom when we need it most.

The gift of your complete attention is precious—both to others and to yourself.

#DeepListening #ActiveListening #InnerVoice #BeStill #MindfulConnections #ListenToUnderstand #MentalStillness #PresentMoment #ConsciousConversation #SelfAwareness #MindfulListening #AuthenticConnection #SlowDown #QuietTheMind #ListeningSkills #RelationshipWisdom #EmotionalIntelligence #MindfulCommunication #SoulfulListening #InnerWisdom
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When we truly become still and listen to understand others, something magical happens. By setting aside our mental chatter and focusing completely on what someone else is saying, we create a space of genuine connection. Active listening isn’t just waiting for your turn to speak. It’s being fully present—noticing not just their words, but their tone, their body language, what remains unsaid. When we listen this deeply to others, we’re actually strengthening our ability to tune into our own inner voice. Think about it: each time you quiet your mind to truly hear someone else, you’re practicing the very skill needed to hear yourself clearly. The mental stillness required for deep listening becomes a pathway to self-understanding. Try this today: in your next conversation, take a deep breath and intentionally slow down. Notice when your mind starts forming responses before they’ve finished speaking. Gently return to simply being with their words. This same practice of quieting the noise helps us recognize our own inner wisdom when we need it most. The gift of your complete attention is precious—both to others and to yourself. #DeepListening #ActiveListening #InnerVoice #BeStill #MindfulConnections #ListenToUnderstand #MentalStillness #PresentMoment #ConsciousConversation #SelfAwareness #MindfulListening #AuthenticConnection #SlowDown #QuietTheMind #ListeningSkills #RelationshipWisdom #EmotionalIntelligence #MindfulCommunication #SoulfulListening #InnerWisdom
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Being Too Understanding? It’s Hurting You! 🥹

There’s a fine line between being compassionate and being a doormat. Learn when empathy goes too far!

#lackofboundaries #lackofrespect #peoplepleasing #letthem #mentalhealth #selfawareness #datingadvice
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Being Too Understanding? It’s Hurting You! 🥹 There’s a fine line between being compassionate and being a doormat. Learn when empathy goes too far! #lackofboundaries #lackofrespect #peoplepleasing #letthem #mentalhealth #selfawareness #datingadvice
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I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! 

Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them!

Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕

#datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
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I’m so excited 🎉 to share my interview with @thecut alongside Dating Coach, Grace Lee, about summer date ideas! Whether you’re just starting a summer fling or you’ve been with your partner forever, I share tons of ideas that’ll get you out of that boring dinner-and-movie rut. Make sure you check out the article to see all of our recommendations. I think you’re going to love them! Let me know which date idea you try first! 💕 #datingideas #dateideas #firstdates #summerdates #datingadviceformen #datingadvice #creativedateideas
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Ever noticed someone who wasn’t “traditionally attractive” yet somehow drew everyone’s attention? It wasn’t luck or accident—it was something much deeper.

The most magnetic people aren’t worried about looking perfect or saying all the “right” things. They’ve mastered something far more powerful... and I’m sharing my top 5 attraction secrets in my latest blog.

Want to know what singles consistently tell me are the most attractive qualities they find in potential partners? The answers might surprise you (and free you from so many unnecessary insecurities!) 

👉 Read the full blog at AmieTheDatingCoach.com or click the link in my bio!

#DatingAdvice #AttractionTips #DatingCoach #RelationshipGoals #AuthenticDating #SelfConfidence #DatingTips
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Ever noticed someone who wasn’t “traditionally attractive” yet somehow drew everyone’s attention? It wasn’t luck or accident—it was something much deeper. The most magnetic people aren’t worried about looking perfect or saying all the “right” things. They’ve mastered something far more powerful... and I’m sharing my top 5 attraction secrets in my latest blog. Want to know what singles consistently tell me are the most attractive qualities they find in potential partners? The answers might surprise you (and free you from so many unnecessary insecurities!) 👉 Read the full blog at AmieTheDatingCoach.com or click the link in my bio! #DatingAdvice #AttractionTips #DatingCoach #RelationshipGoals #AuthenticDating #SelfConfidence #DatingTips
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