Not every connection that you try to build is going to work out and that’s completely normal. But how do you break up with someone kindly but firmly? This can prove to be a more difficult task than it seems because when ending a relationship, all parties are losing something and must be present together in a moment of grief. Letting go of someone you care about or love can be hard. Because someone is being broken up with, they may feel rejected, which can be painful and difficult to process. At times all parti[...]
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Recently I opened my email box and found something unexpected and exciting. It was an email from one of my former clients, letting me know how happy he was and how in love he was with an incredible woman. (For privacy reasons I will refer to him by the pseudonym John.) In the email, John included a photo of himself cheek to cheek with his new love. The happy couple exuded happiness and joy in every way. The email made me tear up not just about John’s happiness and new relationship, but also about the incredibl[...]
My husband and I have been married for almost 8-years now and I’m very thankful for our relationship, but sometimes when I am coaching my clients I find my mind wandering back to my previous life as a struggling single. Most recently this happened when I was coaching a client who was working through some major issues she developed from a recent breakup with a boyfriend who was gaslighting her throughout her relationship. For those of you not familiar with the term “gaslighting”, it is a form[...]
The holidays are just around the corner which means that cuffing season is officially here. Handcuffing or cuffing season is a time when commitment-phobes, ex’s, ghosters, one night stands and more crawl out of the woodwork. As a Dating Coach I see this all the time! Now they suddenly are lonely and want to cuddle so they can find a temporary relationship until just around Valentine’s Day. If you are looking to find a real relationship, I’m going to walk you through how to identify and avoid these time wastin[...]