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Navigating Love Online: 10 Red Flags to Watch Out For

February 1, 2024

In the maze of online dating, it can be exciting to find someone who seems to fit your ideal partner profile. But before you click "send" on that heart emoji, let's talk red flags. In the sea of digital love, we all seek the same shore—safety. For many, the art of online dating has become a way of life, but amidst the profile perusals and message exchanges, it's crucial to arm yourself with an awareness of potential pitfalls. Here are 10 essential red flags to keep in mind as you navigate the world of digita[...]

Understanding How Trauma Wounds Can Affect How You Love

January 11, 2024

Trauma can leave deep emotional wounds that affect how you love and interact with others. Some people may struggle with intimacy, while others may be more prone to being emotionally detached. The effects of trauma on love and relationships are complex, but understanding how they work can help you heal and build healthier connections with others. Despite wanting to move forward and love again, the wounds of the past can affect how we love in the present and future. Trauma wounds never disappear completely, and th[...]

Level Up Your Dating Picker: How to Attract a Healthy Relationship

December 10, 2023

If you continuously attract the same toxic type of person with a different face, this video is for you. You know, the ones who always seem to need rescuing, the emotional vampires who drain you of your energy, or the takers who always seem to take more than they give. I'm sharing my best actionable tips on how to break the pattern of attracting toxic partners and what you need to learn to be more intentional and mindful of screening. So that you can start attracting partners who align with your values, bringing yo[...]

How to Express Your Needs without Feeling Needy

November 29, 2023

We all have needs, whether they are emotional, physical, or psychological. Having needs is not being needy. Knowing how to express them is one of the most important parts of conflict resolution. However, expressing our needs can be a tricky task, especially when we fear being perceived as needy or demanding. The guilt to express ourselves often happens to those who grew up in a home where they didn't feel heard or felt supported. However, if we don't express our needs, how are we supposed to get them met? When[...]