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8 Signs: How to Spot an Emotionally Unavailable Partner

March 23, 2021

As we navigate the dating world, there are many things we look for in a potential partner. Things like looks, a sense of humor, honesty, and intelligence all come to mind. Although each of these is all great qualities to have in a partner, there's one quality not on that list that is missing that should negate the importance of any of them to you. I'm referring to whether or not your partner is emotionally available or not. In simplest terms, when you’re emotionally available you’re open to discussing you[...]

How to Go From Messaging to Meeting

March 15, 2021

Online dating is as much about timing as it is about preparation. If you have started chatting on a dating site or app with someone you are interested in, you don’t want that initial spark to fizzle before your first date. But what do you say and do to build a spark with someone without physically meeting them? And how do you take that conversation from messaging to meeting in person so you can explore the relationship? These are critical moments when dating online that require thoughtful and timely execution[...]

10 Unique and Fun Virtual Date Ideas that Spark a Connection

March 9, 2021

Virtual dates on video platforms like Zoom, Skype, and FaceTime have gone from being a social distancing trend to the new normal for dating and appear to be here to stay. So how do you create a virtual date that goes beyond video chatting and can potentially spark intimacy and fun? With a combination of creativity and web-savvy, you can now plan virtual dates that are not only memorable but also test the strength of your connection with a potential partner. Of course, it is not the same as meeting IRL. However,[...]

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Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners that cheat? How can I stop this?

March 1, 2021

Recently I opened my email box and found something unexpected and exciting. It was an email from one of my former clients, letting me know how happy he was and how in love he was with an incredible woman. (For privacy reasons I will refer to him by the pseudonym John.) In the email, John included a photo of himself cheek to cheek with his new love. The happy couple exuded happiness and joy in every way. The email made me tear up not just about John’s happiness and new relationship, but also about the incredibl[...]