Narcissistic Abuse Archives

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6 Warning Signs You’re Dating Someone Avoidant

November 13, 2024

I used to be drawn to them like a moth to a flame - those mysterious, emotionally distant people who kept me wondering if they'd ever truly let me in. As someone who deeply feared abandonment, I found myself repeatedly attracted to partners with avoidant attachment styles. The irony? In trying to avoid being left, I kept choosing people who were emotionally unavailable. The pattern was painfully familiar: I'd meet someone who seemed perfect on the surface - successful, attentive (at first), and often incredibly ch[...]

Dating Deal-Breakers: Green Flags You Should Never Compromise

May 23, 2024

Many of us have become experts at identifying red flags, but it's equally crucial to recognize and prioritize the qualities that contribute to a healthy, happy partnership. Today we'll explore the key green flags that lay the foundation for a strong, supportive, and blissful relationship. From emotional intelligence and effective communication to shared values and genuine interest in your well-being, I'll dive deep into the characteristics that truly matter when building a lasting connection. You'll learn how to[...]

10 Signs of a Taker in a Relationship (and How to Avoid Them)

March 29, 2024

For those of us who tend to give people too many chances in love, it's an all-too-common experience. We hold onto the hope that things will change and that our partner will finally see and appreciate all that we do. We make excuses for their behavior, convincing ourselves that they'll come around if we just love them enough. But the truth is, being in a relationship with a "taker" can be emotionally exhausting. It slowly chips away at our self-esteem and leaves us feeling drained and unfulfilled. We start to quest[...]

7 Signs Someone is Emotionally Safe and Worth Trusting

February 22, 2024

Have you ever found yourself pouring your heart and soul into a relationship, only to realize that the person you gave so much to only took advantage of your kindness and broke your heart? In the pursuit of love and connection, sometimes we can miss key signs showing someone is invested in our happiness and well-being. The good news is there are important personality traits that can help you identify whether someone is emotionally safe or not. In this video, I share seven signs that show someone is emotionall[...]