One question I often get from singles is, "How do I make him or her like me more?" I know that's our goal if we really like someone, but often when we come from that mindset...we're saying that we want to change ourselves to make us more appealing and it rarely ever works to get the lasting relationship we want. In this video, I share the secret to making yourself irresistible without having to become someone you're not. Conscious Dating TV - Episode #1 Topic: Not Everyone is Going to Like You & It's[...]
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Before I became Master Certified Relationship Coach and a happily married woman, I was very much a struggling dater just like you, who got cheated on by my partners… lots of them. Over the course of those many single years, I repeatedly asked myself why does this keep happening to me? I'm attractive, smart, fun, and am by no means sexually frigid, so why do my boyfriends keep looking for the company of other women? The answer is both a complex one and a simple one. The simple answer is I allowed them to.[...]
So many of my single I work with come to me with dating war stories that seem to compare their dating life to walking through a minefield and where almost every step leads to getting blown to smithereens. Often their dating struggles begin and end with the fact most singles just plain lack the necessary dating knowledge and dating skill set to make good dating choices. That’s right, being good at, and having fun with, dating requires you have certain knowledge and skills just like it you would to excel at skii[...]
Do you know where scientists say the head shake for saying NO comes from? We developed it as infants at times when our parents feed us or give us something we don’t want and we turn out heads. It’s a simple move that tells our parents, we don’t want anything. By the time we hit those terrible twos language comes into play and the shake of the head adds a partner. The single word, that if you master the use of can changes your dating life. The word is “No!” As a relationship coach, I see how often my[...]