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Tired of Attracting Cheaters?

March 15, 2017

Before I became Master Certified Relationship Coach and a happily married woman, I was very much a struggling dater just like you, who got cheated on by my partners… lots of them. Over the course of those many single years, I repeatedly asked myself why does this keep happening to me? I'm attractive, smart, fun, and am by no means sexually frigid, so why do my boyfriends keep looking for the company of other women? The answer is both a complex one and a simple one. The simple answer is I allowed them to.[...]

4 Conscious Dating Steps to Screen in Your Soulmate

January 16, 2017

So many of my single I work with come to me with dating war stories that seem to compare their dating life to walking through a minefield and where almost every step leads to getting blown to smithereens. Often their dating struggles begin and end with the fact most singles just plain lack the necessary dating knowledge and dating skill set to make good dating choices. That’s right, being good at, and having fun with, dating requires you have certain knowledge and skills just like it you would to excel at skii[...]

The Biggest Obstacle to Finding Real Love

July 19, 2016

Do you know where scientists say the head shake for saying NO comes from? We developed it as infants at times when our parents feed us or give us something we don’t want and we turn out heads. It’s a simple move that tells our parents, we don’t want anything. By the time we hit those terrible twos language comes into play and the shake of the head adds a partner. The single word, that if you master the use of can changes your dating life. The word is “No!” As a relationship coach, I see how often my[...]

5 Ways to Test if He’s “Mr. Right” or “Mr. Right Now”

February 8, 2016

As a Master Certified Relationship Coach, and as a woman, I believe that when you first start dating a man you should be screening him to make sure that he’s really right for you. We get one life to live so that means the people you let into your heart and soul should be only the best ones for you. Despite this obvious need for testing far too many daters out there either fail to implement tests or just ignore the results. If you are one of those people who wants to find true love, then I strongly recommend yo[...]