Red Flags Archives

How I Found My Husband: Spotting Emotional Availability in Dating Profiles

June 6, 2024

After years of online dating and countless disappointing experiences, I realized that I often found myself attracted to profiles with charming photos but failed to recognize the signs of emotional unavailability. As a result, I wasted a lot of time on dates that never seemed to lead anywhere until I changed my approach. After investing time in personal growth and self-reflection, I embraced a new approach to dating that I call Conscious Dating. This mindset shift involved clearly defining my relationship non-neg[...]

5 Signs Someone May Be Emotionally Unavailable

May 16, 2024

When you're falling for someone new, it's natural to hope that the connection you feel is mutual and has the potential to grow into a meaningful relationship. However, sometimes the person you're interested in may be emotionally unavailable, even if they seem to enjoy spending time with you. In my Conscious Dating Programs, I discuss the main way to break free from attracting these emotionally unavailable types by being clear of your n0n-negotiables and making a list to screen someone against them. However, ther[...]

10 Online Dating Red Flags You Shouldn’t Ignore

April 18, 2024

As much as I love online dating (I met my husband online), I also know how important it is to keep your eyes open for any potential red flags. Dating is dating, whether it's online or in-person, and you've got to protect your heart and your well-being. So, while you're swiping and chatting, just remember to trust your gut and look out for any warning signs. You deserve nothing but love, respect, and happiness in your relationships, online and off! Here are 10 online dating red flags to watch out for: 1. Inco[...]

5 Signs in Breadcrumbing and How to Stop It

April 2, 2024

It can be incredibly painful and confusing to experience "breadcrumbing" in a potential romantic relationship. This modern dating phenomenon occurs when someone sends flirtatious, but ultimately non-committal, digital signals (or "breadcrumbs") to keep you interested, without any real intention of pursuing a genuine connection. The hot-and-cold behavior and inconsistent messaging exhibited by breadcrumbers can leave you feeling confused, frustrated, and emotionally drained. It's important to recognize that this[...]