Relationships Archives

Why You Self-Sabotage in Love (And How to Finally Stop)

February 27, 2026

Before I became a happily married woman and a dating coach, I didn't have a name for what I was doing. I just knew something kept going wrong in my dating world. Looking back, I was deep in self-sabotage. I would meet someone genuinely wonderful and suddenly find a hundred reasons why it wasn't going to work. I'd convince myself they were "too nice" or "too available." I'd ghost people who actually showed up for me and chase the ones who didn't. Sound familiar? Here's the thing nobody talks about enough: self[...]

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How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners

February 12, 2026

Let me ask you something. Have you ever looked up from a situationship or the end of yet another relationship that went nowhere and thought, "Why does this keep happening to me?" If you're nodding your head right now, I want you to know: you're not alone, and there is nothing wrong with you. But I do want to have an honest conversation with you, because the truth is, if you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, something needs to shift. And that shift starts with you. I know that might sting a lit[...]

10 Signs You’re Dating Someone Securely Attached

February 2, 2026

If you're anxious or avoidant, dating someone securely attached could actually rewire your nervous system and calm your triggers 🧠💕 In this video, I'm breaking down the 10 key signs that show you're with a securely attached partner and why that matters for your nervous system, your mental health, and your ability to feel safe in love. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you never miss a video on attachment, dating, and relationships! If you're ready to understa[...]

Break Through Your Love Blocks This New Year

December 31, 2025

As we step into this new year, I want to talk about something that's been coming up a lot in my coaching sessions lately: love blocks. You know what I mean, those invisible barriers that keep you from experiencing the deep, authentic love you deserve. And let me tell you, the start of a new year has a way of bringing these blocks into sharp focus. Maybe you spent the holidays watching everyone else coupled up, feeling that familiar ache of being the single one again. Or perhaps you made it through another yea[...]