After years of coaching singles through every relationship scenario imaginable, I can tell you that figuring out if someone is "the one" is one of the biggest sources of anxiety I see. And honestly? The confusion makes sense. We've been fed so many conflicting messages about love. Some people say you "just know," others say it takes years, and everyone's got an opinion. But here's what I've learned: finding your person isn't just about fireworks and fairy tales. It's about recognizing the right patterns, the[...]