Self Esteem Archives

The Secret to Attracting Quality: Like Attracts Like

May 17, 2017

As a Relationship Coach, I hear from many singles out there that they don't enjoy the dating process, they downright hate it. I was a struggling single for years, so I can definitely relate to the failure to connect with the dating process. That being said, low dating success rates are almost a foregone conclusion without the proper dating mindset. Singles share with me the kind of person they want to attract, yet for some reason they rarely do or act like the person they want to attract into their lives.[...]

Tired of Attracting Cheaters?

March 15, 2017

Before I became Master Certified Relationship Coach and a happily married woman, I was very much a struggling dater just like you, who got cheated on by my partners… lots of them. Over the course of those many single years, I repeatedly asked myself why does this keep happening to me? I'm attractive, smart, fun, and am by no means sexually frigid, so why do my boyfriends keep looking for the company of other women? The answer is both a complex one and a simple one. The simple answer is I allowed them to.[...]

5 Ways to Be a Magnet to Quality Men

February 13, 2017

Do you know what draws more men than a drop-dead gorgeous face or a rocking body? Confidence! Women who have confidence are always at the top of the dating pyramid. The ones who lack it, are at the bottom. The question is how do you develop confidence when the dating world can be such a cruel and unforgiving place? As a Master Certified Relationship Coach my passion is to help singles discover effective dating and by doing so, they do not only become better daters with a newfound sense of self-confidence, they[...]

4 Conscious Dating Steps to Screen in Your Soulmate

January 16, 2017

So many of my single I work with come to me with dating war stories that seem to compare their dating life to walking through a minefield and where almost every step leads to getting blown to smithereens. Often their dating struggles begin and end with the fact most singles just plain lack the necessary dating knowledge and dating skill set to make good dating choices. That’s right, being good at, and having fun with, dating requires you have certain knowledge and skills just like it you would to excel at skii[...]