vulnerability Archives

Five Qualities That Make You More Attractive

April 18, 2025

You might think attraction begins with the superficial shell on the outside, but there is more to attraction than what meets the eye. After years in the dating world (both as a single person and now as a dating coach), I've discovered that what makes you truly attractive has very little to do with your physical appearance and everything to do with how you show up. Have you ever met someone who wasn't conventionally good-looking but had everyone drawn to them like magnets? That's because they've mastered what I[...]

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Overcome the Fear of Abandonment in a Relationship

March 26, 2025

Before I became a Dating Coach, I was the queen of dead-end relationships. You know the type...intense connections that burn bright but fizzle fast, leaving you wondering what went wrong. Date after date, relationship after relationship, I kept hitting the same wall. The faces changed, but the story remained the same. I couldn't understand why my relationships kept falling apart. I'd start dating someone new, pour my whole heart in, try to be perfect, and then watch it crumble – again and again. The common[...]

How to be Vulnerable with Someone You Just Started Dating

February 11, 2025

You're heart starts racing, wondering if it's time to share that part of your story. We've all been there – that moment when you want to open up but worry if it's too soon or how they'll react. In this video, I'm sharing my own journey and the exact steps that helped me (and can help you) share your past with someone new. No more second-guessing or losing sleep over the "right time." I remember how terrifying it felt to be vulnerable with someone I was just getting to know. That's why I'm breaking down exactly[...]

How to Avoid Getting Stuck in Situationships

February 4, 2025

Let's talk about situationships – those confusing almost-relationships that leave you wondering, "What are we?" while simultaneously trying to convince yourself you're cool with the ambiguity. Been there, done that, got the emotional baggage to prove it. But here's the thing: you deserve clarity, commitment, and a relationship that aligns with your values. Let me share some hard-earned wisdom on how to dodge these emotional minefields. Know Your Non-Negotiables Your non-negotiables aren't just a wishlist - they[...]