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Amie Leadingham - Amie the Dating Coach | Master Certified Relationship Coach | Online Dating Expert | Author

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DATING PROFILE MAKEOVER SESSION – ONLY $199.00

(60 MINUTE PRIVATE SESSION)   

 

Remember your last disappointing match? The one that made you wonder if real connection is even possible online? That feeling stops today.

You’re smart, successful, and ready for lasting love… but your dating profile isn’t telling your true story. The result? Your inbox is filled with matches that don’t come close to what you’re looking for.

But imagine waking up to messages from people who actually get you. People whose values, ambitions, and desire for real connection match yours. Not tomorrow. Not someday. Now.

Meet Amie Leadingham – Online Dating Transformation Expert (Named One of LA’s Best Online Dating Coaches) Because finding love shouldn’t feel like a second job.

What’s Holding You Back?

  • A profile that attracts the wrong matches
  • Time wasted on dead-end conversations
  • Uncertainty about which photos truly capture your essence
  • Messages that disappear into the void

Your Love Life Transformation Includes:

💫 Power Hour Strategy Session

  • Deep-dive profile makeover with Amie
  • Photo selection secrets that capture attention
  • Username psychology that attracts quality matches
  • Proven message templates that spark genuine connections with high caliber singles
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Jumpstart Program

JUMPSTART YOUR LOVE LIFE PROGRAM – ON SALE $49.00

(SELF-PACED DATING PREP COURSE) 

Imagine waking up every morning knowing you’re getting closer to the love story you’ve always dreamed of. No more second-guessing yourself. No more settling for “maybe this is as good as it gets.” No more watching everyone else find their perfect match while you’re left wondering what you’re doing wrong.

Introducing the “Jumpstart Your Love Life” Program, created for everyone who’s ever looked in the mirror and wondered, “Will I ever find my person?” This isn’t just another dating program. It’s your pathway back to believing in love – and this time, with the tools to make it last.

From your very first day, you’ll begin with our soul-stirring Relationship Readiness Quiz – because your journey to love starts with understanding yourself. This is where everything changes.

Your Path to Deep, Lasting Love

Step 1: Break Free From Hidden Patterns

Ever wonder why the same relationship patterns keep showing up in your life? In this foundational step, you’ll discover what’s really been holding you back. Through our signature Relationship Readiness assessment, you’ll:

  • Uncover the unconscious habits that have been sabotaging your love life
  • Learn to spot and avoid the 14 Dating Traps that keep you stuck in disappointing relationships
  • Master the Conscious Dating mindset that helps you stay true to yourself while opening your heart

Step 2: Discover What You Really Want

No more settling or second-guessing yourself. This transformative step helps you get crystal clear on your ideal relationship. You’ll:

  • Define your true relationship non-negotiables (hint: they’re not what you might think)
  • Learn to trust your instincts and spot red flags early
  • Develop an upgraded “dating picker” that saves you time, energy, and heartache
  • Build the confidence to attract partners who match your level of commitment

Step 3: Master the Art of Smart Dating

Dating doesn’t have to feel like a gamble. Our proven four-step Conscious Dating approach puts you in control. You’ll learn to:

  • Screen potential partners effectively without closing your heart
  • Identify genuine compatibility beyond surface-level attraction
  • Navigate early dating stages with confidence and authenticity
  • Trust your judgment when choosing potential partners

Step 4: Find Your Perfect Match (In All the Right Places)

Tired of looking for love in all the wrong places? We’ll show you exactly where your ideal partner is likely to be. Discover:

  • Three powerful strategies for meeting quality singles, both online and offline
  • How to make dating apps work for you (instead of against you)
  • Natural ways to expand your social circle with like-minded people
  • Which dating platforms are best for finding committed relationships

Step 5: Create a Real Connection

This is where everything comes together. With your new skills and confidence, you’ll:

  • Master the art of authentic communication that draws the right people closer
  • Learn to build genuine chemistry while staying true to yourself
  • Create meaningful connections that go beyond surface-level attraction
  • Develop the presence that naturally attracts quality partners

Throughout each step, you’ll have clear guidance and practical exercises that make it easy to implement what you learn. No more guessing or trying to figure it out alone – this is your roadmap to finding the love you deserve.

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The person meant for you won’t require you to lose yourself. 💫⁠
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You shouldn’t have to dim your light, change your dreams, or silence your voice to make someone love you. The right person will celebrate your quirks, support your goals, and love you louder on the days you forget to love yourself.⁠
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You’re not “too much” for the right person. You’re exactly enough. ✨⁠
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#selflove #datingadvice #knowyourworth #boundaries #relationshipgoals #selfworth #loveyourself #dating #relationships #personalgrowth #mentalhealth #motivation #authenticity #dontsettle #healthyrelationships #selfrespect #quotestoliveby #mindset #lovequotes #empowerment
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The person meant for you won’t require you to lose yourself. 💫⁠ ⁠ You shouldn’t have to dim your light, change your dreams, or silence your voice to make someone love you. The right person will celebrate your quirks, support your goals, and love you louder on the days you forget to love yourself.⁠ ⁠ You’re not “too much” for the right person. You’re exactly enough. ✨⁠ ⁠ #selflove #datingadvice #knowyourworth #boundaries #relationshipgoals #selfworth #loveyourself #dating #relationships #personalgrowth #mentalhealth #motivation #authenticity #dontsettle #healthyrelationships #selfrespect #quotestoliveby #mindset #lovequotes #empowerment
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Happy Father’s Day to the man who taught me to never give up ❤️

Thank you for showing me that with persistence, and the right tools, there’s always a solution. 

Your lessons go way beyond the garage… they’re how I approach life.

Love you, Dad 💙

#FathersDay #Dad #Family #Love #Grateful #BestDad #Blessed #ThankYou #FatherAndChild #FamilyFirst #DadLove
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Happy Father’s Day to the man who taught me to never give up ❤️ Thank you for showing me that with persistence, and the right tools, there’s always a solution. Your lessons go way beyond the garage… they’re how I approach life. Love you, Dad 💙 #FathersDay #Dad #Family #Love #Grateful #BestDad #Blessed #ThankYou #FatherAndChild #FamilyFirst #DadLove
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Here’s the truth about attachment styles that I wish someone had told me sooner: they’re not your permanent sentence.

In my recent interview with @fountain_hrt , we dove deep into this myth that your attachment style is just who you are forever. But here’s what I’ve learned and what the research actually shows…attachment styles can absolutely change when both people are willing to do the inner work.

I used to think I was just “anxiously attached” and that was it. That my partner was “avoidant” and we were doomed to this endless cycle. But when we both started looking inward, doing our own healing, and showing up differently for each other, something beautiful happened. We started creating new patterns together.

It’s not easy work. It means sitting with your triggers instead of reacting from them. It means your partner doing the same. It means having those uncomfortable conversations and choosing connection over being right. But it’s possible.

Your nervous system learned these patterns to protect you, and with patience and intention, it can learn new ones too. You’re not broken. Your relationship isn’t doomed. Change is possible when you’re both willing to grow.

#AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipHealing #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantAttachment #SecureAttachment #RelationshipGrowth #HealingTogether #RelationshipTherapy #AttachmentHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipTips #HealingJourney #FountainHRT #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #CouplesTherapy #AttachmentTrauma #LoveAndHealing
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Here’s the truth about attachment styles that I wish someone had told me sooner: they’re not your permanent sentence. In my recent interview with @fountain_hrt , we dove deep into this myth that your attachment style is just who you are forever. But here’s what I’ve learned and what the research actually shows…attachment styles can absolutely change when both people are willing to do the inner work. I used to think I was just “anxiously attached” and that was it. That my partner was “avoidant” and we were doomed to this endless cycle. But when we both started looking inward, doing our own healing, and showing up differently for each other, something beautiful happened. We started creating new patterns together. It’s not easy work. It means sitting with your triggers instead of reacting from them. It means your partner doing the same. It means having those uncomfortable conversations and choosing connection over being right. But it’s possible. Your nervous system learned these patterns to protect you, and with patience and intention, it can learn new ones too. You’re not broken. Your relationship isn’t doomed. Change is possible when you’re both willing to grow. #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipHealing #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantAttachment #SecureAttachment #RelationshipGrowth #HealingTogether #RelationshipTherapy #AttachmentHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipTips #HealingJourney #FountainHRT #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #CouplesTherapy #AttachmentTrauma #LoveAndHealing
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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt 

I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table.

Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters.

So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕

#LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table. Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters. So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕 #LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect.

Here’s what conscious dating taught me:

✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals?

✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy

✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love

✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you

You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period.

What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇

#ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect. Here’s what conscious dating taught me: ✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals? ✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy ✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love ✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period. What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇 #ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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