Los Angeles Dating Coach for Singles Ready for Real Love
Named one of LA’s best dating coaches. Master Certified Relationship Coach helping Los Angeles singles stop settling and find lasting partnership.
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Dating in Los Angeles is hard. It doesn’t have to stay that way.
LA has more singles than almost anywhere, yet so many of my clients feel lonely here. Long commutes and packed schedules make dating feel like a second job. The apps are crowded, and people always seem to be looking for something better. Image matters, and it’s easy to wonder whether anyone wants the real you.
I’m Amie Leadingham, a Los Angeles dating coach and Master Certified Relationship Coach. For 10+ years, I’ve helped LA singles stop repeating the same painful patterns and attract a relationship that feels natural, easy and right.
I’ve been where you are
For years, I was the single friend who couldn’t figure it out. I tried the apps, went on the dates, and kept landing in relationships that weren’t going anywhere. I was successful in other parts of my life, so why not this one?
The turning point came when I stopped looking for the right person and started looking at myself. Through personal development work, I saw the patterns I’d been repeating and began dating with real intention. In a short time, I met my husband, Kevin, on a dating app. Eight months later, we were engaged.
I’ve since watched the same shift happen for client after client, including women who had been single for years.
I met Kevin while dating in Los Angeles, so I know this city’s dating scene firsthand.
Recognized as one of LA’s best dating coaches
- Named one of LA’s Best Dating Coaches by DatingAdvice.com
- Named one of the Best Dating Coaches in Los Angeles by Datezie
- Named one of the Best Online Dating Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com
- Featured on ABC News, CBS, Fox 5, People, Oprah Daily, Cosmopolitan, BRIDES and InStyle
- Lead Mentor Coach and past faculty, Relationship Coaching Institute
Who I work with in LA
My clients are smart, successful and busy: professionals, creatives and people in the entertainment industry. They’ve tried the apps, matchmakers, speed dating and setups from friends. They keep meeting people who are emotionally unavailable, not ready to commit, or not a match. They’re ready to do things differently.
I coach singles across Los Angeles, including Santa Monica, West Hollywood, Silver Lake, Pasadena, the South Bay, Burbank and the San Fernando Valley, Hollywood, Beverly Hills, Marina Del Rey, Manhattan Beach, and more.
How LA dating coaching works
- Free Relationship Readiness Review. We talk about where you are, what keeps happening, and what you want.
- Get clear. Using the Conscious Dating® method (I’m certified through the Relationship Coaching Institute), we uncover the beliefs and patterns behind your past choices and define what a healthy relationship looks like for you.
- Date with intention. We sharpen your profile, choose where to meet people in LA, and plan how to screen matches early.
- Get support as you date. I’m your sounding board through first dates, mixed signals and the move to commitment.
Sessions are virtual over Zoom, so coaching fits around LA traffic and your schedule.
Coaching programs
- Private Dating Coaching: one-on-one coaching for LA singles who want personal support. Starting at $900 a month for 3 sessions.
- Path to Love Group Coaching: live Zoom group coaching with other singles. $697 for the Path to Love program with the option to add group coaching for $150 per month.
- Conquer Online Dating & Find Love: my self-paced program for making the apps work. $97.
Love stories from LA clients
“I had been single for almost two decades and I was still carrying around negative baggage about previous relationships… With your guidance and education, I was able to let go of the past and envision a healthy and happy relationship. I found Sean and he loves me just as I am… We got engaged at Christmas.”
— Deb Valenzuela, Los Angeles
“Within a month of working with Amie, I met the man of my dreams and now, two years later, he and I are awaiting the arrival of our twin daughters.”
— Nicole Gomez, Los Angeles
“I made a lifetime commitment to the girl I was dating… I always credit that you helped me step-by-step to get me ready for when the right person comes… I know she’s of quality because she’s gone through the Amie test and she passed!”
— Andy Giti, Los Angeles
“She was able to tap into my negative beliefs that were blocking me from being in a healthy relationship. It was more than just dating advice, it was helping me to get out of my own way.”
— Dr. Sasa, PsyD, Psychologist, Los Angeles
Los Angeles dating coach FAQ
How much does a dating coach in Los Angeles cost? My programs start at $97 for a self-paced online dating program, my Path to Love program is $697 (add group coaching for $150/month) and Private coaching: $900/month for 3 sessions or $1,000/month for 4 sessions Many coaches, including me, offer a free first consultation so you can see if it’s a fit.
Do you meet LA clients in person? All coaching is virtual over Zoom, so you can work with me from anywhere in LA.
Why is dating in LA so hard? Busy schedules, long drives, crowded apps and a culture that rewards appearances all make it tough to build real connection. Coaching helps you focus your time on people who are actually available and aligned with you.
What’s the best way to meet singles in Los Angeles? A mix works best: one or two well-chosen apps plus in-person activities you already enjoy, such as classes, run clubs, volunteering or community events. We’ll build a plan that fits your life.
Do you coach men and women? Yes. I coach both women and men in Los Angeles and beyond who are ready for a committed relationship.
I’m not in LA. Can I still work with you? Yes. All programs are available virtually.
Ready to change your love life in LA?
Book your free Relationship Readiness Review. We’ll find what’s been holding you back and map out your next step.