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Why Relationships End at 3 Months (And What to Do)

May 28, 2025

As a dating coach who's worked with thousands of clients over the years, I can tell you that the three-month relationship pattern is one of the most common issues I see. You meet someone, everything feels magical, and you're convinced this could be "the one." Then, like clockwork, around month three, something shifts. The spark fades, doubts creep in, and before you know it, you're single again, wondering what went wrong. If this sounds like your dating story on repeat, I want you to know that you're not brok[...]

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5 Signs Someone Really Likes You

May 9, 2025

Looking back at my dating life before I met my husband, I can't help but laugh at how oblivious I was. There I was, second-guessing every text, overanalyzing every interaction, completely missing all the signals. The funny thing is, the signs were always there. I just didn't know how to read them properly. You see, I was so accustomed to relationship drama that when something healthy came along, it felt... suspicious. Like waiting for the other shoe to drop. "They're being nice to me? What's the catch?" Yeah, I[...]

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Five Qualities That Make You More Attractive

April 18, 2025

You might think attraction begins with the superficial shell on the outside, but there is more to attraction than what meets the eye.  After years in the dating world (both as a single person and now as a dating coach), I've discovered that what makes you truly attractive has very little to do with your physical appearance and everything to do with how you show up. Have you ever met someone who wasn't conventionally good-looking but had everyone drawn to them like magnets? That's because they've mastered what I[...]

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How and When to Ask Someone Out from a Dating App

March 28, 2025

Let's be honest...navigating those early messaging stages in online dating often feels like trying to solve a puzzle with missing pieces. "When should I suggest meeting up?" "What's the perfect way to ask?" I'm here to clear something up that might surprise you: in today's digital dating landscape, those traditional gender roles about who asks who out? They simply don't apply during these initial online exchanges. The universal goal, regardless of your gender, is to move from those back-and-forth messages to an ac[...]

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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️

Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise!

We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together.

Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶

Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕

Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

#13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️

Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise!

We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together.

Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶

Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕

Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

#13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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Happy 13th Anniversary to us! 🎉❤️ Thirteen years ago, we promised each other a lifetime of love and adventure and wow, have we delivered on that promise! We’ve proven that the best journeys are the ones we take hand in hand, and the most beautiful memories are the ones we create together. Here’s to 13 amazing years of marriage and a love that keeps growing stronger with every new experience we share. Thank you for being my favorite adventure partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. 🫶 Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my absolute favorite! 💕 Cheers to us and to all the incredible memories still waiting for us! 🥂✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ #13yearsstrong #13thanniversary #anniversarypost #marriedlife #loveofmylife #adventurepartner #soulmate #myforever #husbandandwife #marriagegoals
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The Fine Line Between Compassion and Self-Abandonment

Learning to recognize when your empathy becomes self-sacrifice. It took me years to understand that constantly putting someone else’s needs before my own wasn’t love...it was a pattern that led to resentment and losing myself in the process. 

Real love doesn’t require you to abandon who you are. Sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is maintain your boundaries and not enable harmful behavior. 

Growth means learning that you can care deeply for someone without sacrificing your own well-being.

#selflove #boundaries #relationships #codependency #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #selfcare #emotionalhealth #relationshippatterns #peoplepleasing #selfworth #healthyrelationships #innerwork #therapy #selfawareness #growth #love #wellness #mindset #recovery #selfcompassion #boundaries matter #healingjourney #relationshiphealing
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The Fine Line Between Compassion and Self-Abandonment Learning to recognize when your empathy becomes self-sacrifice. It took me years to understand that constantly putting someone else’s needs before my own wasn’t love...it was a pattern that led to resentment and losing myself in the process. Real love doesn’t require you to abandon who you are. Sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is maintain your boundaries and not enable harmful behavior. Growth means learning that you can care deeply for someone without sacrificing your own well-being. #selflove #boundaries #relationships #codependency #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #selfcare #emotionalhealth #relationshippatterns #peoplepleasing #selfworth #healthyrelationships #innerwork #therapy #selfawareness #growth #love #wellness #mindset #recovery #selfcompassion #boundaries matter #healingjourney #relationshiphealing
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Misunderstandings will happen. Conflict will happen. That’s part of being human. You can explain yourself, open your heart, and speak your truth but you can’t control how others receive it. If someone chooses to walk away even after you’ve tried to explain yourself... let them. 

Their departure isn’t your failure…it’s their choice. Your peace isn’t found in making everyone understand you; it’s in knowing you showed up authentically. Some doors are meant to close so better ones can open. Trust the process. Trust yourself. 

#LetThemTheory #PersonalGrowth #Boundaries #SelfLove​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
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Misunderstandings will happen. Conflict will happen. That’s part of being human. You can explain yourself, open your heart, and speak your truth but you can’t control how others receive it. If someone chooses to walk away even after you’ve tried to explain yourself... let them. Their departure isn’t your failure…it’s their choice. Your peace isn’t found in making everyone understand you; it’s in knowing you showed up authentically. Some doors are meant to close so better ones can open. Trust the process. Trust yourself. #LetThemTheory #PersonalGrowth #Boundaries #SelfLove​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
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✨ A day late but the love is just as strong! Happy Mother's Day to my beautiful mom! ✨

Couldn’t let today pass without shouting out the woman who’s been my rock through it all. Thanks for always believing in me, even when I didn’t believe in myself.

Your wisdom, your laugh, your incredible strength – you amaze me every day. So blessed to call you Mom.

Love you beyond words! ❤️

#HappyMothersDay #BestMomEver #Blessed #FamilyFirst​​​​​
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✨ A day late but the love is just as strong! Happy Mother's Day to my beautiful mom! ✨ Couldn’t let today pass without shouting out the woman who’s been my rock through it all. Thanks for always believing in me, even when I didn’t believe in myself. Your wisdom, your laugh, your incredible strength – you amaze me every day. So blessed to call you Mom. Love you beyond words! ❤️ #HappyMothersDay #BestMomEver #Blessed #FamilyFirst​​​​​
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Speak Up to Express Your Needs! Ever notice how waiting for “the right time” to express your needs often means they never get addressed? I share my journey of realizing that while we should avoid conversations when emotions are flooding, consistently postponing our needs leads to dangerous resentment. 

Learn the balance between giving space during heightened emotions and still honoring your boundaries through calm, intentional conflict. Discover how speaking up prevents resentment while still respecting emotional states—a critical skill for healthier relationships.

#RelationshipAdvice #HealthyBoundaries #ExpressingNeeds #EmotionalRegulation #PreventingResentment #HealthyConflict #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #SettingBoundaries #ConflictResolution #RelationshipTips #EmotionalFlooding #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipPsychology #CalmDiscussions #AvoidingResentment #HealthyArguing #RelationshipHealing #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalAwareness
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Speak Up to Express Your Needs! Ever notice how waiting for “the right time” to express your needs often means they never get addressed? I share my journey of realizing that while we should avoid conversations when emotions are flooding, consistently postponing our needs leads to dangerous resentment. Learn the balance between giving space during heightened emotions and still honoring your boundaries through calm, intentional conflict. Discover how speaking up prevents resentment while still respecting emotional states—a critical skill for healthier relationships. #RelationshipAdvice #HealthyBoundaries #ExpressingNeeds #EmotionalRegulation #PreventingResentment #HealthyConflict #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #SettingBoundaries #ConflictResolution #RelationshipTips #EmotionalFlooding #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipPsychology #CalmDiscussions #AvoidingResentment #HealthyArguing #RelationshipHealing #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalAwareness
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