Law of Attraction Archives

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Why We Self-Sabotage Love and How to Break the Cycle

October 15, 2026

They're kind. Text back when they say they will. They actually show up on time, every time. You know they are into you. And that's exactly when you get the urge to run the other way. Maybe you lose interest out of nowhere. Maybe you pick a fight right when things are going well. Or maybe you keep choosing people who can't fully show up, because deep down, that means you never have to either. If you're nodding along, I want you to hear this first: you are not broken. You're not too much, and you're not "bad at[...]

What Should Happen on the First, Second & Third Date

September 28, 2026

You know the feeling. You've been on a few dates with someone, and they've been good. The conversation flowed, you laughed, and you drove home thinking, okay, this could really be something. And then… nothing. It's not that anything went wrong or that it's over. It's just stuck. You're still texting and still seeing each other, but it isn't going anywhere. You don't know what to expect next or how to move things forward. Every time you get together, it's the same conversation all over again. "What have you bee[...]

How to Meet and Connect With Singles in Person

September 16, 2026

I'll say this upfront because I think it matters: I am a HUGE advocate for online dating. I met my husband online. They work. I'm proof. But I also get the idea of online dating app fatigue. I hear you... swiping until your thumb goes numb doesn't feel like romance. But here's what I've learned coaching singles for years: online dating and in-person connection aren't competing strategies. They're teammates. Apps are great for expanding your pool of options. In-person interactions are where you build the muscl[...]

6 Personality Traits That Make You More Attractive

August 19, 2026

I've coached hundreds of people through their dating lives, and I can tell you with total confidence: the people who consistently attract healthy, lasting connections are not the ones with the "perfect" look. What makes a person attractive is how they show up. Attraction goes so much deeper than a jawline or a great hair blowout. It's a felt sense, an energy, a way of being in the world that makes someone else think, "I want to be around this person." So let's get into it. Here are the six personality traits[...]