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Are You in a Codependent Relationship?

November 20, 2020

My goal as a Relationship Coach is to develop singles into empowered and resilient individuals and put them on a path to find that forever relationship. I have been very blessed and fortunate for many of my clients as more and more of them are donning engagement rings or walking down that aisle with the love of their life. The path to achieving these momentous occasions is different for each of my clients, but I did want to talk about a certain faction of the people who come to me that I feel often walk the longest[...]

Am I Being Cuffed or is this Relationship Real? | How to Avoid Cuffing Season

November 17, 2020

The holidays are just around the corner which means that cuffing season is officially here. Handcuffing or cuffing season is a time when commitment-phobes, ex’s, ghosters, one night stands and more crawl out of the woodwork. As a Dating Coach I see this all the time! Now they suddenly are lonely and want to cuddle so they can find a temporary relationship until just around Valentine’s Day. If you are looking to find a real relationship, I’m going to walk you through how to identify and avoid these time wastin[...]

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How Childhood Trauma May Affect Your Dating Choices

October 31, 2020

I consider myself a very honest and authentic person, both in my personal and my professional life. There is one thing about me that I rarely share even to the people closest to me. That is the amount of trauma I experienced growing up. This wasn’t just the typical childhood stuff that many people have experienced, my trauma came in the form of physical, mental, and emotional abuse at the hands of one of the people I looked up to the most. And unfortunately, not until I was willing to look head-on at my trauma,[...]

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3 Ways Being Too Nice Can Hurt You When Dating

October 26, 2020

At some point in our life as a child, we are told to be nice. After all, children are made of sugar and spice and everything nice. These statements overall sound harmless but can do more damage than help as children become adults using this harmful belief system that desperately needs to be retired. Even though I'm a Dating Coach now, for the longest time I was very insecure and always looked for external validation because as a child I was constantly being told to be a nice little girl so that people would l[...]