The holidays are just around the corner which means that cuffing season is officially here. Handcuffing or cuffing season is a time when commitment-phobes, ex’s, ghosters, one night stands and more crawl out of the woodwork. As a Dating Coach I see this all the time! Now they suddenly are lonely and want to cuddle so they can find a temporary relationship until just around Valentine’s Day. If you are looking to find a real relationship, I’m going to walk you through how to identify and avoid these time wastin[...]
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I consider myself a very honest and authentic person, both in my personal and my professional life. There is one thing about me that I rarely share even to the people closest to me. That is the amount of trauma I experienced growing up. This wasn’t just the typical childhood stuff that many people have experienced, my trauma came in the form of physical, mental, and emotional abuse at the hands of one of the people I looked up to the most. And unfortunately, not until I was willing to look head-on at my trauma,[...]
At some point in our life as a child, we are told to be nice. After all, children are made of sugar and spice and everything nice. These statements overall sound harmless but can do more damage than help as children become adults using this harmful belief system that desperately needs to be retired. Even though I'm a Dating Coach now, for the longest time I was very insecure and always looked for external validation because as a child I was constantly being told to be a nice little girl so that people would l[...]
As a Dating Coach, I can tell you online dating profile pictures matter more than most people think. To get someone to actually read your profile and learn a bit about who you are, you must post good photos of yourself. And “good” doesn’t necessarily mean sexy, staged, or flashy. It means, authentic and complete with a narrative that speaks to who you are and your personality. Photos that are bad will potentially stop you from attracting the right type of person in your life. But a truly good set of photos[...]