Love bombing is a term typically used to describe the actions of someone who is trying to control another person through displays of affection. It's often seen in relationships where one person is trying to exert power over the other. If you're in a relationship, or even just talking to someone, and you notice any of the following signs, it might be time to step back and reassess the situation. Love bombers often come on very strong at first, showering you with attention and compliments. They may also try to[...]
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Perhaps you have been dating someone for a short or long period and then something happens that just doesn’t sit right with you. Maybe the person you've been seeing stood you up, told a lie, was nasty to a service person, etc. Either way, it was a relationship red flag and you’re left wondering: “Should I continue dating this person?” Red flags aka non-negotiable or dealbreakers are important to pay attention to. These warning signs exist for a reason and if your instinct is telling you to reconsider the[...]
There is a big difference between being kind and being nice. Most people think that they are the same thing, but this is not true. Kindness comes from a place of genuine care and concern for others, while niceness often stems from a need to be accepted or liked. Many singles confuse the difference as they may have grown up in a family system where love was earned. That they had to be perfect in order to feel liked or accepted. It can be easy to fall into the habit of being nice instead of kind. After all, it[...]
Do you think you might be sabotaging your love life at times? If you're not getting the results you want in dating, it's possible that you're self-sabotaging. As a Dating Coach, I often share with clients this behavior isn't done on purpose and may be a habit they are unaware of. This means that you're unconsciously doing things that prevent you from finding love like canceling a date last minute because of cold feet saying you are busy with work. In this blog post, we'll discuss some tips to create self-awarene[...]