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WOMAN COVERING HER EYES

Is Love Blind? – Love is Blind, Season 1, Episode 1

April 10, 2020

Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on pinterest Share on email Can you really fall in love with somebody without ever seeing them? In this episode, Amie and Kevin tackle Netflix's hit, Love is Blind: Episode 1. The couple also breaks down the red and green flag behaviors of the perspective daters as they have their first dates in the pods. Tune in to find out if true lasting love is really blind. LET'S STAY CONNECTED! ►Join the Conscious Singles Community for Women here.[...]

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Single in the Summer? No Problem. Here are Some Ways to Find Love!

August 24, 2018

Summer is an exciting time for many singles, especially now when you know where to look for love! From traveling to outdoor activities, there are plenty of ways to connect with other singles who could be The One. Even if your search isn't successful, at least you’ll have gained some awesome experiences and made new friends along the way. Just stay positive and be confident in your approach—who knows what wonderful connection or person you may discover? Don’t get discouraged, in this video, I share creative[...]

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Five Ways For You To Trust Again

May 14, 2018

We’ve all been hurt in love before. There's nothing pleasant about it and ever after enough time has passed for us to be able to move on it doesn't always mean we're ready to. Often because we are not ready to trust potential partners again or because we just don't trust our ability to protect ourselves. The problem is trust is a cornerstone of any relationship and as long as you don't have the ability to trust, you don't have the ability to truly love and be happy. So how do you get that trust back when[...]

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The Secret to Attracting Quality: Like Attracts Like

May 17, 2017

As a Relationship Coach, I hear from many singles out there that they don't enjoy the dating process, they downright hate it. I was a struggling single for years, so I can definitely relate to the failure to connect with the dating process. That being said, low dating success rates are almost a foregone conclusion without the proper dating mindset. Singles share with me the kind of person they want to attract, yet for some reason they rarely do or act like the person they want to attract into their lives.[...]

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Why Too Much Empathy Can Destroy You As a recovering people pleaser, I’m constantly on a journey of learning how to say “no” when I need to, and it’s honestly been life-changing. Every time I set a boundary, I’m actually saying “yes” to myself and my wellbeing. Who else is working on setting better boundaries? Drop a ❤️ below if you’re on this journey with me! #MyHealingJourney #BoundariesAreBeautiful #SelfLoveJourney #Peoplepleasing #MentalHealthTalk #SettingBoundaries #SelfWorthReminder #AuthenticLiving #HealingTogether #mentalhealthmatters #boundariesarehealthy #peoplepleaser #PersonalGrowthStory
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Why Too Much Empathy Can Destroy You As a recovering people pleaser, I’m constantly on a journey of learning how to say “no” when I need to, and it’s honestly been life-changing. Every time I set a boundary, I’m actually saying “yes” to myself and my wellbeing. Who else is working on setting better boundaries? Drop a ❤️ below if you’re on this journey with me! #MyHealingJourney #BoundariesAreBeautiful #SelfLoveJourney #Peoplepleasing #MentalHealthTalk #SettingBoundaries #SelfWorthReminder #AuthenticLiving #HealingTogether #mentalhealthmatters #boundariesarehealthy #peoplepleaser #PersonalGrowthStory
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Curious about how couples are really finding love in 2025? @brides just published a fascinating article exploring “How the Modern Love Story Really Starts—and Strengthens—in 2025” that dives deep into today’s dating landscape! ❤️ I’m thrilled to share that I was interviewed for this piece! 🎉 As master certified relationship coach, I had the opportunity to provide insights on how dating has evolved in our digital age. In the article, I explain that “Early relationships have evolved significantly since our parents’ and grandparents’ generations, but online dating is just one factor in this shift.” While I acknowledge that dating apps provide seemingly endless options that can make commitment feel more challenging, I emphasize that “other social changes have played major roles, too.” The piece explores how digital platforms have transformed the dating landscape, making it increasingly common for couples to connect online rather than through traditional methods, while still recognizing the value of conventional meeting opportunities. I’m honored to contribute my expertise to this thoughtful exploration of modern relationships!​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ Read the rest of the article in my story highlights under “interviews”. #HowCouplesMeet #DatingAdvice #MeetingTheOne #FindingLove #RelationshipTips #ModernDating #OnlineDatingTips #DatingApps #MeetCute #FirstDateAdvice #RelationshipCoach #ConnectionAdvice #DatingSuccess #LoveConnections #MeaningfulRelationships #DatingInspiration #FindYourMatch #RelationshipWisdom #DatingJourney #AuthenticConnections​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
Curious about how couples are really finding love in 2025? @brides just published a fascinating article exploring “How the Modern Love Story Really Starts—and Strengthens—in 2025” that dives deep into today’s dating landscape! ❤️ I’m thrilled to share that I was interviewed for this piece! 🎉 As master certified relationship coach, I had the opportunity to provide insights on how dating has evolved in our digital age. In the article, I explain that “Early relationships have evolved significantly since our parents’ and grandparents’ generations, but online dating is just one factor in this shift.” While I acknowledge that dating apps provide seemingly endless options that can make commitment feel more challenging, I emphasize that “other social changes have played major roles, too.” The piece explores how digital platforms have transformed the dating landscape, making it increasingly common for couples to connect online rather than through traditional methods, while still recognizing the value of conventional meeting opportunities. I’m honored to contribute my expertise to this thoughtful exploration of modern relationships!​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ Read the rest of the article in my story highlights under “interviews”. #HowCouplesMeet #DatingAdvice #MeetingTheOne #FindingLove #RelationshipTips #ModernDating #OnlineDatingTips #DatingApps #MeetCute #FirstDateAdvice #RelationshipCoach #ConnectionAdvice #DatingSuccess #LoveConnections #MeaningfulRelationships #DatingInspiration #FindYourMatch #RelationshipWisdom #DatingJourney #AuthenticConnections​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
Curious about how couples are really finding love in 2025? @brides just published a fascinating article exploring “How the Modern Love Story Really Starts—and Strengthens—in 2025” that dives deep into today’s dating landscape! ❤️ I’m thrilled to share that I was interviewed for this piece! 🎉 As master certified relationship coach, I had the opportunity to provide insights on how dating has evolved in our digital age. In the article, I explain that “Early relationships have evolved significantly since our parents’ and grandparents’ generations, but online dating is just one factor in this shift.” While I acknowledge that dating apps provide seemingly endless options that can make commitment feel more challenging, I emphasize that “other social changes have played major roles, too.” The piece explores how digital platforms have transformed the dating landscape, making it increasingly common for couples to connect online rather than through traditional methods, while still recognizing the value of conventional meeting opportunities. I’m honored to contribute my expertise to this thoughtful exploration of modern relationships!​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ Read the rest of the article in my story highlights under “interviews”. #HowCouplesMeet #DatingAdvice #MeetingTheOne #FindingLove #RelationshipTips #ModernDating #OnlineDatingTips #DatingApps #MeetCute #FirstDateAdvice #RelationshipCoach #ConnectionAdvice #DatingSuccess #LoveConnections #MeaningfulRelationships #DatingInspiration #FindYourMatch #RelationshipWisdom #DatingJourney #AuthenticConnections​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
Curious about how couples are really finding love in 2025? @brides just published a fascinating article exploring “How the Modern Love Story Really Starts—and Strengthens—in 2025” that dives deep into today’s dating landscape! ❤️ I’m thrilled to share that I was interviewed for this piece! 🎉 As master certified relationship coach, I had the opportunity to provide insights on how dating has evolved in our digital age. In the article, I explain that “Early relationships have evolved significantly since our parents’ and grandparents’ generations, but online dating is just one factor in this shift.” While I acknowledge that dating apps provide seemingly endless options that can make commitment feel more challenging, I emphasize that “other social changes have played major roles, too.” The piece explores how digital platforms have transformed the dating landscape, making it increasingly common for couples to connect online rather than through traditional methods, while still recognizing the value of conventional meeting opportunities. I’m honored to contribute my expertise to this thoughtful exploration of modern relationships!​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ Read the rest of the article in my story highlights under “interviews”. #HowCouplesMeet #DatingAdvice #MeetingTheOne #FindingLove #RelationshipTips #ModernDating #OnlineDatingTips #DatingApps #MeetCute #FirstDateAdvice #RelationshipCoach #ConnectionAdvice #DatingSuccess #LoveConnections #MeaningfulRelationships #DatingInspiration #FindYourMatch #RelationshipWisdom #DatingJourney #AuthenticConnections​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
Curious about how couples are really finding love in 2025? @brides just published a fascinating article exploring “How the Modern Love Story Really Starts—and Strengthens—in 2025” that dives deep into today’s dating landscape! ❤️ I’m thrilled to share that I was interviewed for this piece! 🎉 As master certified relationship coach, I had the opportunity to provide insights on how dating has evolved in our digital age. In the article, I explain that “Early relationships have evolved significantly since our parents’ and grandparents’ generations, but online dating is just one factor in this shift.” While I acknowledge that dating apps provide seemingly endless options that can make commitment feel more challenging, I emphasize that “other social changes have played major roles, too.” The piece explores how digital platforms have transformed the dating landscape, making it increasingly common for couples to connect online rather than through traditional methods, while still recognizing the value of conventional meeting opportunities. I’m honored to contribute my expertise to this thoughtful exploration of modern relationships!​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ Read the rest of the article in my story highlights under “interviews”. #HowCouplesMeet #DatingAdvice #MeetingTheOne #FindingLove #RelationshipTips #ModernDating #OnlineDatingTips #DatingApps #MeetCute #FirstDateAdvice #RelationshipCoach #ConnectionAdvice #DatingSuccess #LoveConnections #MeaningfulRelationships #DatingInspiration #FindYourMatch #RelationshipWisdom #DatingJourney #AuthenticConnections​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
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Curious about how couples are really finding love in 2025? @brides just published a fascinating article exploring “How the Modern Love Story Really Starts—and Strengthens—in 2025” that dives deep into today’s dating landscape! ❤️ I’m thrilled to share that I was interviewed for this piece! 🎉 As master certified relationship coach, I had the opportunity to provide insights on how dating has evolved in our digital age. In the article, I explain that “Early relationships have evolved significantly since our parents’ and grandparents’ generations, but online dating is just one factor in this shift.” While I acknowledge that dating apps provide seemingly endless options that can make commitment feel more challenging, I emphasize that “other social changes have played major roles, too.” The piece explores how digital platforms have transformed the dating landscape, making it increasingly common for couples to connect online rather than through traditional methods, while still recognizing the value of conventional meeting opportunities. I’m honored to contribute my expertise to this thoughtful exploration of modern relationships!​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ Read the rest of the article in my story highlights under “interviews”. #HowCouplesMeet #DatingAdvice #MeetingTheOne #FindingLove #RelationshipTips #ModernDating #OnlineDatingTips #DatingApps #MeetCute #FirstDateAdvice #RelationshipCoach #ConnectionAdvice #DatingSuccess #LoveConnections #MeaningfulRelationships #DatingInspiration #FindYourMatch #RelationshipWisdom #DatingJourney #AuthenticConnections​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
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You know that feeling when you’re constantly on edge in relationships? When you’re exhausted from trying to “earn” someone’s love? I’ve totally been there too. Here’s the thing—that hypervigilance that once protected you is now draining you. And you don’t need to keep proving your worth through constant emotional labor or availability. Before I share my masterclass, here are 3 powerful mindset shifts to start your journey: 1️⃣ Someone’s behavior reflects THEM, not your worth. You’re never “too much” - you’re learning to trust love again. 2️⃣ When anxiety rises, turn inward first. Ask “What do I need right now?” before reaching for external validation. 3️⃣ Security isn’t about never feeling anxious. It’s about trusting YOURSELF to handle whatever comes your way. That last one? Total game-changer for me. Pretty freeing, right? So I’ve put together this free masterclass that’s helped thousands transform their attachment style. Want in? Just comment #securelove below and I’ll slide into your DMs with the link! We’ll cover my “4-Step Framework to Find Lasting Love” (the stuff nobody talks about but everyone needs to hear!) Let’s heal together! 💕 #attachmenthealing #relationshipadvice #datingtips #anxiousattachment #selflove #healyourheartbreak #relationshipgoals #datingcoach #secureattachment #healthyrelationships
You know that feeling when you’re constantly on edge in relationships? When you’re exhausted from trying to “earn” someone’s love? I’ve totally been there too. Here’s the thing—that hypervigilance that once protected you is now draining you. And you don’t need to keep proving your worth through constant emotional labor or availability. Before I share my masterclass, here are 3 powerful mindset shifts to start your journey: 1️⃣ Someone’s behavior reflects THEM, not your worth. You’re never “too much” - you’re learning to trust love again. 2️⃣ When anxiety rises, turn inward first. Ask “What do I need right now?” before reaching for external validation. 3️⃣ Security isn’t about never feeling anxious. It’s about trusting YOURSELF to handle whatever comes your way. That last one? Total game-changer for me. Pretty freeing, right? So I’ve put together this free masterclass that’s helped thousands transform their attachment style. Want in? Just comment #securelove below and I’ll slide into your DMs with the link! We’ll cover my “4-Step Framework to Find Lasting Love” (the stuff nobody talks about but everyone needs to hear!) Let’s heal together! 💕 #attachmenthealing #relationshipadvice #datingtips #anxiousattachment #selflove #healyourheartbreak #relationshipgoals #datingcoach #secureattachment #healthyrelationships
You know that feeling when you’re constantly on edge in relationships? When you’re exhausted from trying to “earn” someone’s love? I’ve totally been there too. Here’s the thing—that hypervigilance that once protected you is now draining you. And you don’t need to keep proving your worth through constant emotional labor or availability. Before I share my masterclass, here are 3 powerful mindset shifts to start your journey: 1️⃣ Someone’s behavior reflects THEM, not your worth. You’re never “too much” - you’re learning to trust love again. 2️⃣ When anxiety rises, turn inward first. Ask “What do I need right now?” before reaching for external validation. 3️⃣ Security isn’t about never feeling anxious. It’s about trusting YOURSELF to handle whatever comes your way. That last one? Total game-changer for me. Pretty freeing, right? So I’ve put together this free masterclass that’s helped thousands transform their attachment style. Want in? Just comment #securelove below and I’ll slide into your DMs with the link! We’ll cover my “4-Step Framework to Find Lasting Love” (the stuff nobody talks about but everyone needs to hear!) Let’s heal together! 💕 #attachmenthealing #relationshipadvice #datingtips #anxiousattachment #selflove #healyourheartbreak #relationshipgoals #datingcoach #secureattachment #healthyrelationships
You know that feeling when you’re constantly on edge in relationships? When you’re exhausted from trying to “earn” someone’s love? I’ve totally been there too. Here’s the thing—that hypervigilance that once protected you is now draining you. And you don’t need to keep proving your worth through constant emotional labor or availability. Before I share my masterclass, here are 3 powerful mindset shifts to start your journey: 1️⃣ Someone’s behavior reflects THEM, not your worth. You’re never “too much” - you’re learning to trust love again. 2️⃣ When anxiety rises, turn inward first. Ask “What do I need right now?” before reaching for external validation. 3️⃣ Security isn’t about never feeling anxious. It’s about trusting YOURSELF to handle whatever comes your way. That last one? Total game-changer for me. Pretty freeing, right? So I’ve put together this free masterclass that’s helped thousands transform their attachment style. Want in? Just comment #securelove below and I’ll slide into your DMs with the link! We’ll cover my “4-Step Framework to Find Lasting Love” (the stuff nobody talks about but everyone needs to hear!) Let’s heal together! 💕 #attachmenthealing #relationshipadvice #datingtips #anxiousattachment #selflove #healyourheartbreak #relationshipgoals #datingcoach #secureattachment #healthyrelationships
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You know that feeling when you’re constantly on edge in relationships? When you’re exhausted from trying to “earn” someone’s love? I’ve totally been there too. Here’s the thing—that hypervigilance that once protected you is now draining you. And you don’t need to keep proving your worth through constant emotional labor or availability. Before I share my masterclass, here are 3 powerful mindset shifts to start your journey: 1️⃣ Someone’s behavior reflects THEM, not your worth. You’re never “too much” - you’re learning to trust love again. 2️⃣ When anxiety rises, turn inward first. Ask “What do I need right now?” before reaching for external validation. 3️⃣ Security isn’t about never feeling anxious. It’s about trusting YOURSELF to handle whatever comes your way. That last one? Total game-changer for me. Pretty freeing, right? So I’ve put together this free masterclass that’s helped thousands transform their attachment style. Want in? Just comment #securelove below and I’ll slide into your DMs with the link! We’ll cover my “4-Step Framework to Find Lasting Love” (the stuff nobody talks about but everyone needs to hear!) Let’s heal together! 💕 #attachmenthealing #relationshipadvice #datingtips #anxiousattachment #selflove #healyourheartbreak #relationshipgoals #datingcoach #secureattachment #healthyrelationships
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You know that feeling when you’ve gotten *so* good at handling life solo that you start telling yourself “this is fine”? 🙃 I see you. We’ve all built that cozy little fortress where nobody gets to hurt us anymore. But can we talk about how exhausting it is keeping those walls up 24/7? What if all that energy we put into protecting ourselves could be channeled into actually *feeling* something real again? Your lonely era taught you strength. You were meant for connection too. 💫 The scariest and bravest thing? Letting someone see behind those walls. Terrifying? Absolutely. Worth it? Always. #RealTalk #HeartCheck #VulnerabilityIsSexy #ConnectionMatters #BraveryLooksGoodOnYou #LonelyEraGraduate #TimeToFeel #YouDeserveMore​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ .#datingadvice #datingtips
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You know that feeling when you’ve gotten *so* good at handling life solo that you start telling yourself “this is fine”? 🙃 I see you. We’ve all built that cozy little fortress where nobody gets to hurt us anymore. But can we talk about how exhausting it is keeping those walls up 24/7? What if all that energy we put into protecting ourselves could be channeled into actually *feeling* something real again? Your lonely era taught you strength. You were meant for connection too. 💫 The scariest and bravest thing? Letting someone see behind those walls. Terrifying? Absolutely. Worth it? Always. #RealTalk #HeartCheck #VulnerabilityIsSexy #ConnectionMatters #BraveryLooksGoodOnYou #LonelyEraGraduate #TimeToFeel #YouDeserveMore​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ .#datingadvice #datingtips
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We’ve all been there – that moment when you want to open up and be vulnerable but worry if it’s too soon or how they’ll react. 😳 I’m sharing 3 questions to ask before you open up that helped me (and can help you) know the right time to share your past with someone new. 🫶 I remember how terrifying it felt to be vulnerable with someone I was just getting to know. That’s why I’m breaking down exactly what worked for me and what I wish I’d known sooner. Whether you’re dealing with past relationships, personal struggles, or life experiences that shaped you, this guide will help you navigate those conversations with confidence. 💪 💭 Share your experience below! Have you ever struggled with opening up to someone new? Let’s support each other through these moments ❤️ #datingtips #vulnerabilityisstrength #emotionalintelligence #attachmentstyle #relationshiptalk #datinglife #authenticlove #healingjourney #vulnerableaf #datinginyour30s #relationshipgoals2025 #moderndating #healthyattachment #emotionalintimacy #sharingyourstory #vulnerability #vulnerabilityisimportant
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We’ve all been there – that moment when you want to open up and be vulnerable but worry if it’s too soon or how they’ll react. 😳 I’m sharing 3 questions to ask before you open up that helped me (and can help you) know the right time to share your past with someone new. 🫶 I remember how terrifying it felt to be vulnerable with someone I was just getting to know. That’s why I’m breaking down exactly what worked for me and what I wish I’d known sooner. Whether you’re dealing with past relationships, personal struggles, or life experiences that shaped you, this guide will help you navigate those conversations with confidence. 💪 💭 Share your experience below! Have you ever struggled with opening up to someone new? Let’s support each other through these moments ❤️ #datingtips #vulnerabilityisstrength #emotionalintelligence #attachmentstyle #relationshiptalk #datinglife #authenticlove #healingjourney #vulnerableaf #datinginyour30s #relationshipgoals2025 #moderndating #healthyattachment #emotionalintimacy #sharingyourstory #vulnerability #vulnerabilityisimportant
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