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Be Kind, Not Nice: How to Stop Settling in Relationships

June 21, 2022

There is a big difference between being kind and being nice. Most people think that they are the same thing, but this is not true. Kindness comes from a place of genuine care and concern for others, while niceness often stems from a need to be accepted or liked. Many singles confuse the difference as they may have grown up in a family system where love was earned. That they had to be perfect in order to feel liked or accepted. It can be easy to fall into the habit of being nice instead of kind. After all, it[...]

Is He Playing Me? Signs of a Manipulative Relationship

June 7, 2022

Manipulative partners are experts at controlling their partners and making them feel like they are the one who is at fault. If you are in a manipulative relationship, chances are you are not even aware of it. Your partner has likely been manipulating you from the very beginning. They may have gaslighted you, made false promises, or taken advantage of your vulnerabilities. If you suspect that you are being manipulated, here are some signs to look out for. You Feel like You're Walking on Eggshells around Your Par[...]

4 Unique Places to Meet New People and Build Connections

May 4, 2022

As a Dating Coach, I often hear the question, "Where and how do I meet new people?" Maybe you've just moved to a new city, or maybe your old friends are married now and have all disappeared. Whatever the reason, meeting new people can be challenging. But don't worry - I'm here to help! In this blog post, I'll share my top places to meet new friends and possible dates. I'll also give you some tips on how to make connections with other people. So whether you're looking for a social club, a book club, or just someo[...]

How to Be Vulnerable without Feeling Needy

April 6, 2022

Do you ever feel like you need to put up a wall to protect yourself from getting hurt? We've all been there at one time or another. It's natural to want to protect yourself, but sometimes it can be taken too far, and some of the singles I work with tell me they have become closed off from the world. This isn't healthy for any person or a relationship. In this blog post, I'll share my insights on how you can be vulnerable without feeling needy. The first step is to understand why a person becomes closed off in[...]