exes Archives

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Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners that cheat? How can I stop this?

March 1, 2021

Recently I opened my email box and found something unexpected and exciting. It was an email from one of my former clients, letting me know how happy he was and how in love he was with an incredible woman. (For privacy reasons I will refer to him by the pseudonym John.) In the email, John included a photo of himself cheek to cheek with his new love. The happy couple exuded happiness and joy in every way. The email made me tear up not just about John’s happiness and new relationship, but also about the incredibl[...]

11 Signs of Gaslighting in a Relationship + How You Can Stop It

February 24, 2021

My husband and I have been married for almost 8-years now and I’m very thankful for our relationship, but sometimes when I am coaching my clients I find my mind wandering back to my previous life as a struggling single. Most recently this happened when I was coaching a client who was working through some major issues she developed from a recent breakup with a boyfriend who was gaslighting her throughout her relationship. For those of you not familiar with the term “gaslighting”, it is a form[...]

Am I Being Cuffed or is this Relationship Real? | How to Avoid Cuffing Season

November 17, 2020

The holidays are just around the corner which means that cuffing season is officially here. Handcuffing or cuffing season is a time when commitment-phobes, ex’s, ghosters, one night stands and more crawl out of the woodwork. As a Dating Coach I see this all the time! Now they suddenly are lonely and want to cuddle so they can find a temporary relationship until just around Valentine’s Day. If you are looking to find a real relationship, I’m going to walk you through how to identify and avoid these time wastin[...]

Three Ways to Learn From Your Exes

August 26, 2019

One of the biggest mistakes singles make is letting their past relationships affect their present and future ones. Most don’t realize that there’s real value in the overall experiences of their past relationships and growth that can come from it. In fairness, I completely understand how it can be hard to look positively at these emotional times, which may include moments of unhappiness, heartache, and even sheer anger. Last week I received a message from one of our conscious daters that I think a lot of sing[...]