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6 Personality Traits That Make You More Attractive

August 19, 2026

I've coached hundreds of people through their dating lives, and I can tell you with total confidence: the people who consistently attract healthy, lasting connections are not the ones with the "perfect" look. What makes a person attractive is how they show up. Attraction goes so much deeper than a jawline or a great hair blowout. It's a felt sense, an energy, a way of being in the world that makes someone else think, "I want to be around this person." So let's get into it. Here are the six personality traits[...]

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Why Relationships Fail at 3 Months (And Here’s What to Do)

July 6, 2026

I've sat across from hundreds of clients over the years, and I can tell you that if your relationships keep ending right around the three-month mark, you are living out one of the most common patterns I see in my practice. It happens so often that I've started calling it "the 90-day block." You meet someone. It feels exciting. You're already picturing the future. And then, almost on schedule, the three-month mark rolls around, and something shifts. The excitement fades out. The calls begin to drop off. The dates[...]

Why So Many High Achievers Attract Emotionally Unavailable Partners

June 17, 2026

I've been there, sat across from someone who checked every box on paper, felt that amazing attraction, and completely ignored the red flags waving right in front of my face. I've found myself confused about why I could achieve so much in my career, yet when it came to love, I was completely clueless. And I've watched my clients, brilliant doctors, attorneys, CEOs, and entrepreneurs, do the exact same thing, wondering why the one area of life they can't seem to figure out is the one that matters most to their hea[...]

6 Early Warning Signs You’re Dating Someone Manipulative

April 22, 2026

Before finding my forever relationship, I used to be really good at making excuses for the men I dated before they became my exes. And trust me… they didn’t deserve it at all. Someone would come into my life full of fire and intensity, and make me feel like I had finally met the one. The constant texting, telling me I was unlike anyone they’d ever met, making me feel like the center of their entire universe. And I would fall for it. Hook, line, and sinker. That kind of love bombing felt so real, so overwhe[...]