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The Perfect Online Dating 2nd Date: Ideas and Tips

July 9, 2015

It's hard to know what to expect from an online dating 2nd date, but there are a few techniques that may help make the evening memorable and enjoyable. Every date you go on serves as a test flight for your eventual goal of getting on board that real flight: being in a committed quality relationship. The second date is one that combines the excitement of dating someone new, with a real opportunity to learn a lot about them in very little time. Because it is still very early in the dating process, the second date[...]

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Top 3 Reasons Why Women Should Ask Men Out

April 23, 2015

Traditionally, we know that it’s the man who initiates the dating experience. This is not only due to the biological history of men (as Hunters) and women (as Gatherers), but also due to our modern-day societal norms. And although I consider myself an old-fashioned kind of girl, I think it is perfectly ok for a woman to take control of her dating life and be able to ask a man out on a date. Here are“Amie’s Top 3” reasons I think women should ask men out.   1. MEN ACTUALLY LIKE IT According to a survey f[...]

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Top 3 Limiting Beliefs that Hold You Back From Love!

March 2, 2015

When you are not in the right frame of mind dating can be tough. There are certain limiting beliefs that can hold you back from the love you deserve. Only YOU can challenge these limiting beliefs and become The Chooser of what makes you happy. Here are the top 3 limiting beliefs and strategies to manage them.

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Top 4 Things That Make Him Marriage Material

February 22, 2015

Many of us date without really understanding what makes a great partner. After the initial honeymoon phase has passed, what is left when it's over? There are four key attributes to help you know if he is a possible keeper for life: #1 - His Actions Match His Words. This tops as #1 of all the attributes to have in a partner. In marriage, it's important that you can rely on your husband to follow through with his promises. If he is not displaying this characteristic in the early stages of your relationship, how wil[...]

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The person meant for you won’t require you to lose yourself. 💫⁠
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You shouldn’t have to dim your light, change your dreams, or silence your voice to make someone love you. The right person will celebrate your quirks, support your goals, and love you louder on the days you forget to love yourself.⁠
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You’re not “too much” for the right person. You’re exactly enough. ✨⁠
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#selflove #datingadvice #knowyourworth #boundaries #relationshipgoals #selfworth #loveyourself #dating #relationships #personalgrowth #mentalhealth #motivation #authenticity #dontsettle #healthyrelationships #selfrespect #quotestoliveby #mindset #lovequotes #empowerment
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The person meant for you won’t require you to lose yourself. 💫⁠ ⁠ You shouldn’t have to dim your light, change your dreams, or silence your voice to make someone love you. The right person will celebrate your quirks, support your goals, and love you louder on the days you forget to love yourself.⁠ ⁠ You’re not “too much” for the right person. You’re exactly enough. ✨⁠ ⁠ #selflove #datingadvice #knowyourworth #boundaries #relationshipgoals #selfworth #loveyourself #dating #relationships #personalgrowth #mentalhealth #motivation #authenticity #dontsettle #healthyrelationships #selfrespect #quotestoliveby #mindset #lovequotes #empowerment
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Happy Father’s Day to the man who taught me to never give up ❤️

Thank you for showing me that with persistence, and the right tools, there’s always a solution. 

Your lessons go way beyond the garage… they’re how I approach life.

Love you, Dad 💙

#FathersDay #Dad #Family #Love #Grateful #BestDad #Blessed #ThankYou #FatherAndChild #FamilyFirst #DadLove
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Happy Father’s Day to the man who taught me to never give up ❤️ Thank you for showing me that with persistence, and the right tools, there’s always a solution. Your lessons go way beyond the garage… they’re how I approach life. Love you, Dad 💙 #FathersDay #Dad #Family #Love #Grateful #BestDad #Blessed #ThankYou #FatherAndChild #FamilyFirst #DadLove
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Here’s the truth about attachment styles that I wish someone had told me sooner: they’re not your permanent sentence.

In my recent interview with @fountain_hrt , we dove deep into this myth that your attachment style is just who you are forever. But here’s what I’ve learned and what the research actually shows…attachment styles can absolutely change when both people are willing to do the inner work.

I used to think I was just “anxiously attached” and that was it. That my partner was “avoidant” and we were doomed to this endless cycle. But when we both started looking inward, doing our own healing, and showing up differently for each other, something beautiful happened. We started creating new patterns together.

It’s not easy work. It means sitting with your triggers instead of reacting from them. It means your partner doing the same. It means having those uncomfortable conversations and choosing connection over being right. But it’s possible.

Your nervous system learned these patterns to protect you, and with patience and intention, it can learn new ones too. You’re not broken. Your relationship isn’t doomed. Change is possible when you’re both willing to grow.

#AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipHealing #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantAttachment #SecureAttachment #RelationshipGrowth #HealingTogether #RelationshipTherapy #AttachmentHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipTips #HealingJourney #FountainHRT #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #CouplesTherapy #AttachmentTrauma #LoveAndHealing
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Here’s the truth about attachment styles that I wish someone had told me sooner: they’re not your permanent sentence. In my recent interview with @fountain_hrt , we dove deep into this myth that your attachment style is just who you are forever. But here’s what I’ve learned and what the research actually shows…attachment styles can absolutely change when both people are willing to do the inner work. I used to think I was just “anxiously attached” and that was it. That my partner was “avoidant” and we were doomed to this endless cycle. But when we both started looking inward, doing our own healing, and showing up differently for each other, something beautiful happened. We started creating new patterns together. It’s not easy work. It means sitting with your triggers instead of reacting from them. It means your partner doing the same. It means having those uncomfortable conversations and choosing connection over being right. But it’s possible. Your nervous system learned these patterns to protect you, and with patience and intention, it can learn new ones too. You’re not broken. Your relationship isn’t doomed. Change is possible when you’re both willing to grow. #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipHealing #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantAttachment #SecureAttachment #RelationshipGrowth #HealingTogether #RelationshipTherapy #AttachmentHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipTips #HealingJourney #FountainHRT #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #CouplesTherapy #AttachmentTrauma #LoveAndHealing
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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt 

I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table.

Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters.

So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕

#LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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Here’s something I want you to know: Love doesn’t have an expiration date. ❤️ I share my personal experiences with @fountain_hrt I don’t care if you’re 25, 45, 65, or beyond…your heart is just as capable of love as it ever was. Each chapter of your life brings something beautiful to the table. Stop listening to people who say you’ve “missed your chance.” That’s nonsense. All those experiences you’ve had? They’re not holding you back - they’re making you better at love. You know yourself now. You know what matters. So keep your heart open. Stay hopeful. Trust me on this one - it’s never too late. 💕 #LoveAtAnyAge #NeverTooLate #LoveStory #Relationships #Hope #SelfLove #Dating #LoveIsLove #Inspiration #HeartOpen
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect.

Here’s what conscious dating taught me:

✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals?

✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy

✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love

✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you

You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period.

What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇

#ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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If you’re constantly wondering where you stand with someone, feeling like you’re the only one putting in emotional effort, or making excuses for why they can’t show up for you… that’s your cue to pause and reflect. Here’s what conscious dating taught me: ✨ Notice the patterns early- Are they consistent with their words AND actions? Or do you find yourself analyzing mixed signals? ✨Your emotional needs aren’t “too much”- Wanting deep conversations, genuine connection, and emotional presence is normal and healthy ✨ Stop trying to earn basic respect- The right person won’t make you feel like you’re auditioning for their love ✨ Trust your gut- If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is protecting you You deserve someone who’s excited to know your heart, not someone who treats your emotions like they’re inconvenient. Period. What’s one boundary you’ve set in dating that changed everything for you? Drop it below 👇 #ConsciousDating #EmotionalAvailability #DatingTips #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #LoveYourself #RelationshipGoals #MindfulDating #SelfLove #Dating2025 #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipBoundaries
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