narcissistic Archives

6 Signs of Love Bombing and How to Protect Your Heart

August 13, 2025

Before becoming a dating coach and a happily married woman, I was someone who gave people too many chances in dating, as I always saw the best in people. I'd make excuses for red flags I clearly saw and convince myself that someone's intense behavior was just passion, not problematic. I fell for love bombing more times than I care to admit. And here's the kicker: I got so addicted to that high-intensity, whirlwind romance that when someone genuinely cared about me and wanted to take things at a healthy pace, I'd[...]

5 Signs You’re Receiving the Bare Minimum in a Relationship

June 3, 2025

I'm breaking down 5 clear signs that most people completely miss when someone is only giving them the bare minimum in a relationship. These aren't the obvious red flags we all know to look for...these are the subtle, soul-crushing patterns that leave you feeling confused and drained, wondering why something feels off but you can't quite put your finger on it. I made this video because I wish someone had pointed these patterns out to me years ago. When you can finally name what's happening, you can decide what to d[...]

Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable People? The Psychology Behind Why (& How to Stop)

January 16, 2025

When you find yourself repeatedly drawn to people who can't fully love you back, it's not because you're broken. Often, it's because there's a deeper story within you that needs to be heard and healed – a story that lives in your shadow self, those parts of you that you've learned to hide, deny, or push away. Let's explore why your heart keeps reaching for those emotionally unavailable partners who keep their own hearts just out of reach. Recreating Familiar Patterns from Your Past Think back to your earliest e[...]

4 Signs of Love Bombing and How to Protect Yourself

January 9, 2025

Love bombing feels like finally finding your soulmate who "gets you" completely. They mirror your dreams, finish your sentences, and make you feel more seen and understood than ever before. It's the romance you've dreamed of. That rush of constant attention and promises of the future... it's intoxicating. But there's a fine line between genuine connection and manipulation - and today, I'm sharing my personal insights on spotting the difference. Let's talk about love bombing - a tactic that can sweep you off y[...]