Online Dating Coach for Singles Who Are Tired of Swiping
Better profiles. Better matches. Safer, more intentional dates. Coaching from an online dating expert who met her own husband online.
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Online dating works. Your approach may not.
I’m Amie Leadingham, an online dating coach, Master Certified Relationship Coach, and author of A Woman’s Handbook to Online Dating. I’m also proof that it works: I met my husband, Kevin, on a dating site.
If you’re stuck with matches that go nowhere, conversations that fizzle, or dates with people who aren’t really available, the apps aren’t the whole problem. Most singles are using them without a strategy. That’s what I help you build.
How I met my husband on a dating app
I didn’t always believe in online dating. For years, I struggled with it. I swiped, messaged, went on first dates that went nowhere, and kept ending up with people who couldn’t love me the way I wanted to be loved. I blamed the apps. I blamed the people on them.
Then I turned the focus on myself. I started doing personal development work and got honest about my own patterns. I stopped dating on autopilot and started dating with intention: clear on what I needed, and willing to walk away early from what I didn’t.
Same apps. Completely different results. In a short time, I met Kevin on a dating app. Eight months later, we were engaged.
That’s the method I teach today. The apps didn’t change. I did.
What an online dating coach helps you with
- Your profile: photos and a bio that show the real you and attract people looking for the same thing you are.
- Choosing the right apps: which sites fit your age, goals and location, and which are wasting your time.
- Messaging: how to start conversations, keep them going, and move from chat to a real date.
- Screening: spotting red flags, love bombing and emotionally unavailable matches early.
- Safety: how to vet matches and meet safely.
- App burnout: how to date online without it taking over your life or your self-worth.
My approach: Conscious Dating®
Most online dating advice stops at better photos and opening lines. I go further. Using the Conscious Dating® method, which I’m certified in through the Relationship Coaching Institute, we look at the patterns behind who you choose and who chooses you. When you’re clear on what a healthy relationship looks like for you, your profile, your matches and your dates all change.
Ways to work with me
- Conquer Online Dating & Find Love: a step-by-step program with my top strategies for attracting quality matches and finding love online. $97
- Dating Profile Makeover: a focused session to rebuild your profile. $199
- Private Dating Coaching: one-on-one support through online and in-person dating, from first message to commitment. Starting at $900 a month for 3 sessions
- Path to Love Group Coaching: live Zoom or e-learning group coaching with like-minded singles. $697 for the Path to Love program with the option to add group coaching for $150 per month
All programs are virtual, so I work with singles anywhere. I coach many clients in Los Angeles and Las Vegas.
Why singles trust me
- Named one of the Best Online Dating Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com
- Author of A Woman’s Handbook to Online Dating
- Master Certified Relationship Coach, Relationship Coaching Institute; Master Certified Coach, Center for Coaching Certification
- Featured on ABC News, People, Oprah Daily, Cosmopolitan, BRIDES and InStyle
- 10+ years coaching singles
What clients say
“After 5 years of being single and multiple failed dates and ‘situationships,’ I considered the idea that perhaps I might be the common denominator in my dating situation… It only took 5 minutes of me explaining my situation to Amie for her to immediately pick up the error of my ways… Within only 2 months, AFTER FIVE WHOLE YEARS of being single, I found what I was looking for! … If someone were to ask me if she or her program was ‘worth it’, I would SCREAM yes!”
Watch her video testimonial here.
— Dr. America Revere, physician
“I had tried countless dating apps and even worked with two other dating coaches… She also guided me through optimizing my profile and staying consistent in a way that finally felt aligned and authentic. Just four months after working with her, I met my now-husband.”
— Danielle Humphreys
“Shortly after the class ended, I had been seeing a man from Hinge… He meets my non-negotiables and has been the best boyfriend I could’ve asked for.”
— Nicole Kruszka, Path to Love graduate
Online dating coaching FAQ
What does an online dating coach do? An online dating coach helps you build a profile that attracts the right people, choose the right apps, message with confidence, screen matches and move to real dates. I also help you understand the patterns behind who you’re drawn to.
Will you write my dating profile for me? We write it together. You should sound like yourself on the first date, so I guide your words and photo choices rather than inventing a persona.
Which dating app is best? It depends on your age, goals and location. Part of coaching is matching you to the one or two apps where your ideal partner actually is.
I’m burned out on the apps. Can you still help? Yes. Many of my clients come to me exhausted. We set limits, cut what isn’t working, and add in-person ways to meet people so dating feels manageable again.
How much does online dating coaching cost? Programs start at $97 for my self-paced online dating program. My Path to Love program is $697, and private coaching is $900 a month for 3 sessions or $1,000 a month for 4 sessions. Your first Relationship Readiness Review is free.
Do you coach men and women? Yes. I coach both women and men who want a committed relationship, and many of my online dating success stories come from both.
Ready to stop swiping and start connecting?
Book your free Relationship Readiness Review. We’ll look at where online dating is getting stuck for you and the next step that will make the biggest difference.