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Attention-Grabbing Profile Photo Tips to Help You Attract Quality Matches

When it comes to online dating, your profile photo is one of the most important aspects of your overall dating profile. A recent study found that adding high quality photos to your profile can increase your chances of getting messages by up to 34%. After all, this is the first thing that people will see when they are browsing through potential matches, so you want to make sure that it stands out and captures their attention. Here are a few tips for taking an attention-grabbing profile photo:

Tip #1: Make Sure Your Photos are High Quality

One of the most important things to consider when taking online dating profile photos is the quality of the photo. You want your photos to be high quality so that they will attract attention and look good online. If you have low-quality or outdated photos, it’s time to update them! There are so many ways you can take high-quality photos right from your own smartphone.

Tip #2: Choose Photos that Show Off Your Personality

When selecting photos for your online dating profile, it’s important to choose shots that show off your personality. You want potential matches to be able to get a good idea of what you’re like, and photos are a great way to do that. Singles have no idea that their photos are their first impressions. It is a good idea to tell a story with your photo as it will help you stand out from the rest of the crowded space online.

Tip #3: Smile!

One of the best things you can do for your online dating profile photos is to smile! A big smile will make you look friendly and approachable, which is exactly what you want in a potential match. Smiling was shown to boost your attractiveness. In a study done by Date Enhance, “Of the men who are “liked” more than 50% of the time, 79% are showing their teeth when they smile, while the percentage for women is 58″. Plus, it’s always more fun when you’re smiling off your interests and personality.

Tip #4: Use a Variety of Photos

When putting together your online dating profile, it’s important to use a variety of photos. Don’t just use one or two shots; be sure to include several different photos so that potential matches can get a good idea of who you are. This will also help to keep things interesting.

Dating photos can be tough to get right. But thankfully, we’re here to help! Check out our Masterclass below, we’ll give you tips on how to capture attention-grabbing photos and how to choose the best dating photos for your dating profile. So whether you’re looking for something casual or serious, we’ve got you covered (article continues below).

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Tip #5: Be Careful with Selfies

While selfies can be fun, it’s important to use them sparingly in your online dating profile. Potential matches want to see photos of you, not just your phone! If all of your photos are selfies, it may make you seem narcissistic or self-absorbed.

Tip #6: Post Photos that are flattering and authentic

When posting photos online, it’s important to choose shots that are flattering but still authentic. Put some effort into the photos, people can tell whether you are serious about finding love online or just testing the waters by the efforts you are making with your photos.

Be sure to select photos that show you in your best light and make you look attractive, but you don’t want to add filters that make you look super photoshopped. Authenticity is what makes you attractive, remember the person is going to meet you in real life so be as real as possible in your photos!

Tip #7: Don’t Post Photos That are Too Revealing

While it’s important to post photos that show off your personality and attract attention, you don’t want to go too far. Photos that are too revealing may make you seem promiscuous or inappropriate. A recent study shows that women that are too revealing in their photos on social media were viewed as less competent. Keep things classy and avoid posting racy shots.

Tip #8: Post Photos That are Recent

Be sure to post photos that are recent. Potential matches don’t want to see outdated or out-of-date photos! If your profile is full of old shots, it will give the impression that you’re not interested in meeting anyone new. Unless you look exactly the same in the photos, I would highly recommend your photos should not be more than 1 year old.

Tip #9: Dress to impress.

You want to look your best in your profile photo, so put on your favorite outfit and do your hair and makeup.  For men, this means trimming that beard and getting a styled haircut. This will show that you take online dating seriously and are putting effort into finding a quality match. If being yourself are photos of you in sweats or just lounging around.. it might be time for a style update in a while, it might be worth investing to get support in this area. Just like going to a job interview, you have to showcase your best self to attract the right attention!

Tip #10: Make sure you are clearly visible.

Finally, potential dates want to be able to see your face so don’t include too much of your body or anything in the background that might obstruct your features. The focus should fully be on you and when your photos are not clear, it may have viewers thinking you might have something you are hiding from them. Take photos that clearly show you and your features.

If you’re looking for tips on how to take better online dating profile photos, be sure to join our Masterclass! Inside we will help you capture the attention of quality matches and increase your chances of finding love online.

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