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Happy Being Single Vs Stuck Being Single: What’s the Difference?

There’s a fine line between loving single life and being so comfortable being unattached that you’re frozen in singledom. But where is that line drawn? As with most things that line lies in the hands of a person’s intention and actions.

While it is important for all singles to love themselves to be in a successful relationship – there also is a time in which self-loving singles should uproot themselves from that comfort and seek out a partnership.

It’s never a good sign when someone gets so comfortable with single life that they become stagnant and stop growing. That’s why I’m going to share what the difference is between a single who is basking in self-love and a single who’s stuck and how they can get out.

Since humans are very diverse in their sexual and romantic preferences, this of course may not apply to aromantic people. For more nuanced concerns such as this, please feel free to schedule a call with me!

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